62 y/o
New Hampshire
Submitting
How submissive is that special guy who's in your life
Many women claim to be the dominant one in their relationship with their special guy, but are they really. Just because a guy will drop whatever it is he's doing to do something for you, doesn't mean he's a submissive, it just means that he's considerate and he's trying to be a good husband, or boyfriend. He may even allow himself to be spanked, or bound, or even to do a little dress up play, but you have to look at what he gets from it and how he gets it. If all of this play leads to some hot sex, sex where he returns to the traditional male role, then is he really a submissive?
Before you can say that your guy is submissive to you, you have to not just look at the things you can get him to do, but also why he does them for you. If your kinky play always leads to his sexual satisfaction, then he may not be submissive at all, he just knows how to play the game to get good sex. A submissive does need sexual satisfaction, but it's the dominant who decides when and how, or even where he will achieve this sexual satisfaction.
The other measure of how submissive your guy is, is best seen after he has achieved sexual satisfaction. Will he still do the kinky things you had him doing, now that he's had a sexual release. If not, he just might like kinky sex, but if he does, then he just might be a submissive. Of course the real test comes from pushing him further and further, testing his limits and pushing him outside the traditional male role. Keep pushing until you decide when to stop and not before. If he's a true submissive, maybe he's spend all of his time in thick diapers and plastic pants and become your little anal slut and cock sucker, just like my sissy diaper boy. If you can see yourself with a sissy diaper boy as your own! Let’s chat!
July 9, 2019 at 2:27 PM