Being a kinky unicorn in threesome

I have to weigh in.. People judging people by their sexual appetites has to STOP!

Stop issuing labels like "Vanilla" to people who don't wanna be (admit it, it's insulting isn't it?) Twisted Fuc ...

Fri Jul 08, 2022 3:20 am • 18 Replies • 3725 Views

Non Porn Videos or Images.

Just so I understand you correctly: you want to see images of young women in cuffs and collar, but you want them not to be in fetish wear ...just ever day clothes? Is that right?

Fri Jul 08, 2022 3:08 am • 5 Replies • 1569 Views

Re: Searching with nerves

Im new to this app and have been interested in the lifestyle since I was young, I’ve never had a daddy/dom but I really want one. This app is actually pretty amazing it’s just some of the doms on here ...

Tue Jul 05, 2022 2:45 am • 22 Replies • 5489 Views

Packs

My understanding is it's just another term for a family. There can be couples, poly relationships, or even single people in the pack/family. There isn't necessarily intimacy, or playing, between all ...

Sat Jul 02, 2022 2:01 am • 3 Replies • 1180 Views

Profile Pic success?

Weirdos? I'm curious to what your definition of "weirdos" happens to be. You are on a site for people who enjoy getting beaten, enjoy doing the beating, want their lives controlled by another, want ...

Sat Jul 02, 2022 1:16 am • 9 Replies • 1460 Views

Old vs new guard

I know Leather Folk in probably close to two dozen communities around the US in well over a dozen states and I've been part of the BDSM community for over 20 years now... Its a pretty safe bet that my ...

Fri Jun 24, 2022 9:06 am • 82 Replies • 16664 Views

Old vs new guard

Leather is not Old Guard. Leather is Leather and Old Guard is Old Guard. Leather groups have borrowed some Old Guard traditions and practices, but the Leather folks that I know do not consider themsel ...

Fri Jun 24, 2022 8:54 am • 82 Replies • 16664 Views

Re: Looking for community

I'm new to BDSM and still working through my own bisexual identity, potentially polyamory, and where I fit in BDSM. I was excited to join the cage because both with BDSM and LGBT stuff people are alwa ...

Fri Jun 24, 2022 8:19 am • 13 Replies • 4175 Views

Old vs new guard

To be old guard you need to be close if not over 100 and a gay male. If you don’t fit BOTH you are not old guard.

Who's going to tell all the people who consider themselves Old Guard that are not o ...

Fri Jun 24, 2022 8:04 am • 82 Replies • 16664 Views

Old vs new guard

I don’t think that anyone is claiming to be an original Old Guard, I think that it’s more of a simplified way of saying, “I hold to old guard core beliefs and concepts.”

Yes. They aren't claiming ...

Fri Jun 24, 2022 3:44 am • 82 Replies • 16664 Views