Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

In my opinion, it's science.
Brain chemicals and hormone production are likely the root of it, then layers of environment, upbringing, societal expectations, age, and open mindedness.

Sat Mar 13, 2021 1:49 am • 47 Replies • 19640 Views

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So ya met a guy n got collared in less than 6 months of irl. I'd hate to say it, but this is a common mistake regaurdless of experience. It works out for some ppl 5% of the time. Makes me think there ...

Fri Feb 12, 2021 1:09 am • 18 Replies • 7223 Views

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I know this is a male Dom and sub questions and maybe I shouldn't reply but I'm hoping you don't mind a Dom Female suggestion

Where could you both met in the middle?
Obviously he wasn't/isn't adv ...

Thu Feb 11, 2021 1:23 pm • 18 Replies • 7223 Views

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OraclePollan,

Ah, sorry. I guess that came off a little ignorant. What I meant was, if he is in "love" now and not doing those "things" (Whatever they were) what did he think he was doing then when ...

Thu Feb 11, 2021 1:10 pm • 18 Replies • 7223 Views

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OraclePollan,

Thanks for your response.
Not sure if your question was rhetorical or not.
No, he was not into humiliation and I am not either.

Thu Feb 11, 2021 12:39 am • 18 Replies • 7223 Views

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Hi.
One of the first things my fiancee and I talked about after we met on match was Dom sub. This was not something either of us had put on our description so it was a pleasant surprise. I'd never b ...

Wed Feb 10, 2021 8:49 pm • 18 Replies • 7223 Views