Ok this isn't necessarily a problem but has anyone actually looked at the numbers for the personal ads? Why is it that men post so much more then women? Is it that we are just more willing to broadcast what we are looking for or even that we are looking?

Hey burned,

Thanks for the link. I know there are a lot of lists out there. I guess I was looking more for personal experiences on what did or did not work. What was liked or not liked. That sort o ...

I am currently in the process of finding an online sub that suites me. In the mean time I am trying to come up with tasks and punishment ideas that she can do solo since I will not be there in person. ...