@House Talion, BDSM is where I learned equity. Each part weighted the same.

I makes perfect sense. I'm a psychological anthropologist, and part of what I'm doing is applying BDSM consent structures to social organization. Equity is the most important. I've been trying to ex ...

I'd like to start a conversation on the lateral nature of BDSM. I haven't spent time in the community, just my husband and I playing around, and I would love other practitioners' take on its lateral ...