Giving Up

BP,

That you may have encountered less than honest and less than forthcoming individuals is hardly surprising on a site that caters to those looking for compatible partners. That is a fact of lif ...

Mon Jun 24, 2019 3:05 pm • 22 Replies • 10820 Views

Confidence

KA, it's not quite clear to me what it is that you are asking.

You say: "I know what my partner wants..."
Are you able to give him what he wants or do you feel lacking in some way?
Do the two ...

Fri Apr 26, 2019 4:40 pm • 4 Replies • 3481 Views

Protection

Welcome to the Cage, danceswithwolves.

You should be the primary source of your protection through education and by being cautious and using good judgment but you can certainly supplement that with ...

Sat Apr 13, 2019 10:11 am • 21 Replies • 10453 Views

I need advice

ina,

Think hard back to when you negotiated the terms of your relationship. Hopefully, you received a safeword. Think hard again, at that time, did they also discuss with you how you are to appro ...

Thu Apr 11, 2019 11:04 am • 4 Replies • 2401 Views

Help With Increasing My Tolerance to Pain

nawazakana, that is a subtlety I've seen but the significance of it never gelled in my brain with the clarity you've presented. That should help the OP by providing other options to consider.

Wed Apr 10, 2019 10:17 am • 21 Replies • 12269 Views