Confused

You are young and just starting your personal journey. You will find some people that will take advantage of that, it seems like you have had a few experiences already. It’s important to find someone ...

Thu Sep 03, 2020 7:12 pm • 8 Replies • 3143 Views

Routines

Oh, yes sour moods have quite a way of affecting even the most consistent person you know. Sometimes , they know they are in a "Funk" and they won't show it, but it is definitely a funk. We all have ...

Sun Oct 20, 2019 12:43 am • 9 Replies • 5977 Views

Physical Attraction~

We all have our unicorns, our perfect Dom/sub that will forever allude us. Trying to find physical attraction in someone that you are going to have a dynamic with isn't necessarily a bad thing. Sit ba ...

Sun Sep 29, 2019 10:09 pm • 43 Replies • 16673 Views

Brats; Love us nor hate us??!!?

I love brats, I love the push and pull. The whole dynamic is enjoyable, and it is quite fun when it works as expected.

What would I do if I manage to have a brat? I’ve had many of them, lots of de ...

Fri Aug 30, 2019 7:50 pm • 7 Replies • 4730 Views

Is it ok to ask?

I think you are asking a very interesting question. I’ve been asked that question a few times, each time (unfortunately) that I have just up and said yes ...it has not worked out. In my time of gettin ...

Thu Aug 29, 2019 3:09 am • 31 Replies • 17035 Views

In your opinion..how fast is too fast??

Too fast is any time where the comfortably of one or both parties is sacrificed for a more immediate trial of the dynamic. If you feel it is too fast, it is too fast.

If they wish to be in a dynam ...

Tue Aug 27, 2019 7:24 pm • 13 Replies • 9350 Views

Tasks (Non sexual)

Greeting in the morning , saying goodnight at night. Tasks that help a submissive in what they lack : homework for procrastinators, coloring for the uncreative, etc.

Fri Aug 02, 2019 6:45 am • 9 Replies • 14012 Views

What do you do when someone ghosts you

Having been ghosted recently, and ghosted often (by often I mean over many years...it’s a frequent occurrence), I say it’s best to leave the door open.

Meaning , you leave it in their court. If th ...

Sat Jun 08, 2019 8:28 am • 8 Replies • 3474 Views

Where’s everyone at?

O-H -pound pound pound- I-O

Fri May 10, 2019 3:06 pm • 34 Replies • 14894 Views

Nudes for dudes?

That sounds like another case of pushy horny dude , to me at least. If it is sending off red flags to you ...tell him hard pass.

I hope my advice helps.

Wed May 08, 2019 10:54 pm • 28 Replies • 16228 Views