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Question for fellow FEMDOM members

For community members in the peanut gallery eager for responses, could you offer additional clarity?

"ways someone submitted to you that meant a benefit for you and not something they already were ...

Fri Jun 12, 2026 8:17 am • 7 Replies • 737 Views

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Solace

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Femdom

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Question for fellow FEMDOM members

I feel like you need to be a sub before being a dom

Why start as sub? Why not all subs start as a Dom? The original post implies that submission is the seed of domination. Or at least that being a submissive enhances ones capability as a dominant. Its ...

Sun May 31, 2026 10:07 pm • 16 Replies • 1938 Views

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Solace

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Lifestyle BDSM

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I feel like you need to be a sub before being a dom

How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

This is ridiculous.

I like Topeka. But this is stupid. The ladies are not victims. They made a choice. They're adults. We blame men when they think with their private buts but not women? Get a grip ...

Sun Aug 24, 2025 6:25 pm • 41 Replies • 17381 Views

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Solace

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Lifestyle BDSM

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How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

Cloaking vs Deception

I am confident there will other takes strongly disagreeing with my own here.

That being said, I'm not on board with idea of people practicing deception because they didn't specify a detail about th ...

Fri Aug 22, 2025 9:31 pm • 3 Replies • 4097 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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Cloaking vs Deception

Forum Fightclub

I just came here to complain about the forum format. It's impossible to have anything that resembles a conversation.

I orefere the reddit structure where I can reply directly with indented thread ...

Tue Aug 12, 2025 5:39 pm • 163 Replies • 51841 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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Forum Fightclub

Fetish vs Kink

I sometimes feel that we don't get enough insightful questions like these in the forums anymore.

When I first started, I felt there was a great deal of helpful discussion in the forums. I read avi ...

Sun Aug 10, 2025 11:32 pm • 6 Replies • 3591 Views

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Solace

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Fetish vs Kink

Forum Fightclub

Still a useful hammer.

Sat Aug 09, 2025 1:56 am • 163 Replies • 51841 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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Forum Fightclub

What do I do?

Cut him out completely in every way possible.

Sun Jun 08, 2025 12:56 am • 10 Replies • 2918 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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What do I do?

What do you like most

Once upon a time I had a girl with some trauma which made her not enjoy people getting near her face. So we made a rule that after dinner we would have desert with a single utensil. I would give her o ...

Sat Jun 07, 2025 8:40 am • 10 Replies • 3711 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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What do you like most

Blocking

I think some people get a sense of satisfaction at blocking others they don't like. A certain imagination of indignation the other person could be feeling.Or simply relief they won't have to hear from ...

Fri May 30, 2025 9:30 am • 24 Replies • 5028 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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Blocking