How To Deal With Abuse & Abusers On THE CAGE

We've all come across profiles before where people have nothing sexual on their profile. Then in their pictures, they'll have pictures of razor
blades, lighters, guns, knives, a hammer, a crow bar ...

Fri Aug 26, 2016 7:11 pm • 25 Replies • 20462 Views

How To Deal With Abuse & Abusers On THE CAGE

This has all been said before, but... The problem with allowing members to name their alleged real life abusers is that there is, almost always, no way to verify that such allegations are true in the ...

Fri Aug 26, 2016 5:10 pm • 25 Replies • 20462 Views

What Does Lesbian Sex Mean To You?

Sex is either sport... just for fun... or it has a depth of emotional connection. I don't think it matters who is doing it. An attempt to characterize M/M, M/F or F/F sex as distinct is an exercise in ...

Wed Aug 17, 2016 4:11 pm • 10 Replies • 17191 Views

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

I think the BDSM lifestyle is a real as the vanilla life style. "Vanilla lifestyle" doesn't mean that you are in bed having straight sex 24 hours a day, 7 days a week... that would be impracticable. I ...

Tue Aug 16, 2016 6:00 pm • 18 Replies • 25537 Views

24/7 D/s - Fantasy Or Achievable?

I think it would be very difficult to maintain a very affected, ceremonial or high protocol D/s dynamic 24 hours a day... but in general I think maintaining the fundament of a D/s relationship 24/7 is ...

Tue Aug 16, 2016 5:50 pm • 5 Replies • 9525 Views