Cross Dressing

Cross Dressing

Allie Kat​(sub trans woman){DarkFox} • Dec 20, 2018

So, i am a cis gendered male, but i really like to look, dress and act "feminine". Feminine in quotes because what is considered masculine and what is considered feminine are entirely social constructs. It's weird because, though i am happily male, i really enjoy any time i am ever mistaken for a female.

Anyway, this topic has been on my mind because recently my Mistress has decided to really embrace this side of me. She has bought and encouraged me to wear panties and even recently bought me a skirt.

I have enjoyed my new skirt so much that now all i want to do is buy a few more skirts, some leggings, shirts to go with everything, shoes and my own make up to really do it right and have fun with it.

So i have a few questions to the community.
1) are there any other non-trans (cis gendered) males out there like me? I want to hear your stories.

2) are there any Dom/Dommes out there who have a cis gendered boy like me? How does it make you feel? What do you like/dislike?

3) Any tips for me to help me look presentable and not like a gurilla wearing a tutu? I want to look noce, not forced and silly.

4) what are some general ideas and opinions about this? Don't worry, if you don't like it, you aren't going to convince me to change or stop haha, you are probably in the majority of people anyway, who really strictly want men and women only to dress in clothes specifically made for them and fit your personal image.

MasterBear​(other butch) • Dec 20, 2018

Congratulations!!


My most treasured play partner cross dresses and she wears the most adorable panties when we play.


How it makes me feel is honored. For her to bring that part out when we play. For her to share that deep part of herself. For me I am just deeply grateful and deeply deeply honored to be a part of that part of her life.



You had written that you don't want to look like a gorilla in a tutu. What I can say is this. Everybody goes through and transitional. In their life when they are going from who they are and who they want to be. That transitional time is a lot of experimentation. It's a lot of figuring out what look really Suits You. So I have this to say, if what really Suits You Makes others think you're a gorilla in a tutu, fuck them. You rock that body hair and that frill!!



I remember when I was in Florida and I was honored enough to go to the lgbtqi community center. And there were a lot of older gentleman who were starting to transition into women. And they were all struggling to find what their signature look was going to be. I remember feelings of overwhelming honor to be in the same space as down while they worked hard to figure out what their next step was


Over time you will figure out what your color palette is, how much Body Mod you want to do, and what shapes of clothes accentuate you the best. My suggestion to you is that you take your time and you enjoy this moment.


This moment in time will never happen again. So Revel in it and all of its possibilities.

Allie Kat​(sub trans woman){DarkFox} • Dec 20, 2018

Thanks for being so supportive ^_^ also thank you so much for sharing your own stories i personally am not trans, but i can totally identify

I do shave, i have never really liked body hair anyway haha when i first found out that i was /going/ to grow hair everywhere i was very upset, and that never changed.

I just know that most "women's" clothes are not made for men, so sometimes they look really awkward when a man wears them, and u want to avoid that when i dress up

FabSeverus​(dom male) • Dec 20, 2018

I am sure by now there are designer for men who wear dress? if not there is defo a niche for business then

MasterBear​(other butch) • Dec 20, 2018

Dresses are rarely made for real women.

So find what style works on your body.


What is your body shape?

Does an "A" frame work on you?
Do you want dresses or skirts?

There are many ways to accentuate what you want and downplay what you dont.

Look at

Holyclothing.com


And google fashion tips for your body type.
There are women with large broad shoulders and masculine features that have your same issues.

Allie Kat​(sub trans woman){DarkFox} • Dec 20, 2018

Yeah i think A frame skirts and "skater" skirts will be best for my body type thanks for asking ^_^

I would do dresses, but i think my shoulders are too broad so i look weird in them haha

I need the light material to help and accentuate the little natural curves that i have

I may do the google search you suggested though, that may help thanks!

MasterBear​(other butch) • Dec 20, 2018

Broad shoulders run in women to.

I have them.

But. There are ways around them.


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.buzzfeed.com/amphtml/alessiasantoro/how-to-love-your-broad-shoulders-with-clothes

dollMaker​(dom male) • Dec 20, 2018

One way of helping create a more traditional womanly shape is to try corsets, not fashion ones, but quality ones with good steel bones inside.

Regarding clothing there are numerous companies in USA, UK and China doing custom work, and in order to create the right look, to suit a traditional male from, getting made to measure items will work better than many off the peg made for women items.

Regarding look much depends on what you are trying to create. I like the natural look, and the more uber feminine look, and the more traditional sissy maid look.

As to involvements with CIS males who cross dress yes I have had involvements, not many, with some, as well as Trans women, but again not many. I have enjoyed making dolls like this and its an area I would like to explore again. The biggest issue I have found is finding genuine people and not fantasists who find the reality too much and who ghost. I have experience of that.

I like the process of feminising, creating this type of doll. I think each top into this area, and making dolls is not so common, will have their own likes and dislikes, so mine would certainly not be universal and may not match your tops.

Wolfy13 I hope you enjoy your journey, wherever it takes you.

Fyglia Wicked​(dom female) • Dec 20, 2018

You need femmed to feel submissive?

Allie Kat​(sub trans woman){DarkFox} • Dec 21, 2018

Thank you so much @MasterBear ^_^ i can't wait to look into that.

@dollMaker (btw, because of a video game your name makes me think of really scary things haha) Thank you so much for the advice. The look i want is absolutely the natural look i want to be indestinguishable from any other female, but i have no desire to be /physically/ turned into a female (not trans). I like hyper-feminine and sissy looks too, but i would never want to go out in public like that.

I will consider a corset, my frame seems feminine enough as it is to me, but i might consider it to "help". Maybe my Mistress could talk to you about it sometime, so she could get tips and help develop what she wants to see from me

@Fyglia: no, that is completely off base. I am a submissive, and i also happen to like "cross dressing" and/or being "feminized" the two are not directly related.