Starting new adventure

Domrook69	Domrook69 5 years ago • Jan 24, 2019 Starting new adventure 5 years ago • Jan 24, 2019 Domrook69 • Jan 24, 2019 Ok i recently found out that my girlfriend is a sub and she was to get me more involved with this lifestyle. I have always been dominant in the bedroom but looking to get more into the dom and sub relationship with her. Any advise would help

MasterBear(other butch)	MasterBear(other butch) 5 years ago • Jan 24, 2019 5 years ago • Jan 24, 2019 MasterBear(other butch) • Jan 24, 2019 First off congrats and welcome!!! Have you looked in your area for BDSM groups?

Domrook69	Domrook69 5 years ago • Jan 24, 2019 5 years ago • Jan 24, 2019 Domrook69 • Jan 24, 2019 No just trying to get started want to give her what she needs

MasterBear(other butch)	MasterBear(other butch) 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 MasterBear(other butch) • Jan 25, 2019 Ok cool!!! My first suggestion is go through a bdsm checklist together. This will start amazing conversations between the 2 if you. Here is one: https://www.scribd.com/document/163631556/BDSM-Checklist Does she have BDSM experience?

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5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019

I suggest reading "Leading and Supportive Love" by Chris M. Lyon. It does a great job explaining the everyday lifestyle, what both sides are like, and struggles to try and look out for. It's the book that helped my husband realize he was a submissive and helped me realize I was a Domme. It's pretty cheap on Amazon.

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Queen Rosalina(switch female)	Queen Rosalina(switch female) 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 Queen Rosalina(switch female) • Jan 25, 2019 I think the best thing is to talk about the general direction of the session then talking about it when its over, asking what was better and what was less.

Domrook69	Domrook69 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 Domrook69 • Jan 25, 2019 Thanks guys and gals for all your help she has experience but she didn't want to freak me out so. Im more into the pain aspect of this. But want to get the whole picture

MasterBear(other butch)	MasterBear(other butch) 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 MasterBear(other butch) • Jan 25, 2019 Ok. BDSM is huge. The whole picture can literally take years to understand. http://yourkinkyfriends.com/2018/12/27/bdsmnewbies/#more-4399 You say you are into the pain aspect of this. Can you expand on that ?

Domrook69	Domrook69 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 Domrook69 • Jan 25, 2019 I enjoy receiving pain and giving pain to a extent plus choking

MasterBear(other butch)	MasterBear(other butch) 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 5 years ago • Jan 25, 2019 MasterBear(other butch) • Jan 25, 2019 Ok. What kind of pain? In the bedroom? Outside of the bedroom? Do you like a service component ? Is the pain you enjoy specific to sex? What do you enjoy about it? You say to an extent. When or why do you start not enjoying it?