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Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs?

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WallyBe​(sub male)
6 days ago • Mon 11 Feb 2019 11:13:26 PM IST
WallyBe​(sub male) • Mon 11 Feb 2019 11:13:26 PM IST
Straight male sub here, 26 y/o. I never really thought about anal play even being an 'option' for straight men until I started getting interested in kink about 4 or so years ago. Mind you, my interest in dating came rather late, so I wasn't getting much exposure tot anything 'out of the ordinary'. Then I started dating a rather bossy girl who didn't want penetrative sex, for religious reasons... And to my own amazement and hers, I discovered that I was perfectly fine with that. It didn't last long, but she indirectly left me with a strong interest in chastity play. And when you browse chastity porn, pegging videos are just 2 clicks away...

At first I thought it was extremely weird, and yes "gay", but I eventually got really interested in the power dynamics especially, and I started to understand the appeal. For me, the combination of chastity and anal play especially is a powerful act of submission that I would love to be able to practice, but only with the right woman. It is definitely taboo in any other context, but I would have no problem sharing it with a dominant woman that I like, especially if I know that she is into it herself. I do not think of it as being "gay" anymore.

I'm actually surprised that this is your experience, seeing that those young subs most likely know that you are interested in it... If it was me, I would be more than willing to drop the day-to-day facade and come clear with you. Of course, everyone has their own kink, and submission has a different meaning for everyone. I just wouldn't expect it to be as age-specific as you have experienced.
MasterNeil77722​(dom male)
5 days ago • Tue 12 Feb 2019 01:43:06 PM IST
MasterNeil77722​(dom male) • Tue 12 Feb 2019 01:43:06 PM IST
If it isn’t your sub’s hard limit, then no. I don’t think it’s an age thing. I think it’s about communication. Explain how you would teach, train and care for your sub in this new adventure. If she/he trusts you, she/he should be willing to learn new a new trick to please you. Go slow is the key.
JDBalance​(sub male)
7 hours ago • Sun 17 Feb 2019 06:01:41 PM IST
JDBalance​(sub male) • Sun 17 Feb 2019 06:01:41 PM IST
I'm 22 and straight and I LOVE anal play. There's something about having every area of my body dominated. Everyone's got their thing.
Livetoplease​(sub male){No collar,}
6 hours ago • Sun 17 Feb 2019 07:05:32 PM IST
Livetoplease​(sub male){No collar,} • Sun 17 Feb 2019 07:05:32 PM IST
I was taught modesty as a young man and that anal play was bad. So about 50 years old, a female friend introduced me to pegging and I found that I really very much enjoyed it! Kind of messes with the mind for a bit that stuff you were taught was wrong, feels really very good!