New mistress

New mistress

Mistress R • Feb 14, 2019

Hi all! I'm a new Dom and Mistress to a submissive male and I'm just looking for tips and tricks of the trade. I'm naturally a Sub and/or Dom. I've always been a sub, but with natural dom behaviours and way of thinking. Let's just say if I was a guy I'd be ruthless I have a new Daddy Dom who is allowing me to have a pet, and I'm very excited with my new toy. Just looking for willing advice, as being a dom is new to me. I'm enjoying going with my instincts and natural actions, but would love some help from the pros! Thanks all!

Lord Nickolaidas​(dom male) • Feb 14, 2019

Welcome.

Learn his kinks. And 'exploit' them. Give him what he wants, but make him struggle for it. Don't deny him too much. Don't give too much. But definitely, absolutely learn what kinks he's into. If he doesn't like to be insulted, swearing at him won't go very far. Some like to take it slow, others want extra fast.

Every slave and dom is unique. Learn more about him and act accordingly.

MasterBear​(kinky butch) • Feb 14, 2019

Being a Domme is a complex thing.

I am not sure what you mean about tricks of the trade?

Do you have questions that are more specific?