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What to ask to a Dom

MasterBear​(other butch)
5 years ago • Mar 13, 2019
MasterBear​(other butch) • Mar 13, 2019
Oooo!!!
This is a good one.


I say ask:

What is your personal philosophy on Mastery?
Who taught you? Or who are your idols and why?
What have your previous relationships looked like and why did they end?


My love says ask:

What happens to our dynamic if you or I get sick?
What are your long term goals after training?
FlipSide1481​(dom male)
5 years ago • Mar 13, 2019
FlipSide1481​(dom male) • Mar 13, 2019
As others have said it is a relationship first, and that is critical.

My question as far as the D/s goes would be...

"What is the best and worst experience you have had with a partner and why?"
movingclouds​(sadist male)
5 years ago • Mar 14, 2019
movingclouds​(sadist male) • Mar 14, 2019
I would treat it less as an interview and more as a conversation. Offering some information about yourself, your desires, thoughts and feelings, can go a long way towards starting a fruitful exchange.
premlove​(dom male)
5 years ago • Mar 16, 2019
premlove​(dom male) • Mar 16, 2019
Hi Shaynna, Prem here. I believe you are nice person. In th BDSM it totally depends upon you what kind of things excites you physically and mentally. Chose your master wisely. If you like your master to be physically dominant while in bed and mentally there for you outside the bedroom. Best of luck. If you want you can ask me anything.