You’re my world. Hang on... who are you again?

MissBonnie(dom female){oz}	MissBonnie(dom female){oz} 5 years ago • Mar 21, 2019 5 years ago • Mar 21, 2019 MissBonnie(dom female){oz} • Mar 21, 2019 Best of luck with it Bunnie. Keep on communicating and i'm sure you'll do fine

Bunnie	Bunnie 5 years ago • Mar 21, 2019 5 years ago • Mar 21, 2019 Bunnie • Mar 21, 2019 Thank you, MissBonnie

NorthernKitten(sub female)	NorthernKitten(sub female) 5 years ago • Mar 23, 2019 5 years ago • Mar 23, 2019 NorthernKitten(sub female) • Mar 23, 2019 Thank you for this topic. I too have struggled with this balance and I find myself feeling skittish of commitment fearing this very balance. Thank you all for your valuable ideas.

MasterBear(other butch)

5 years ago • Mar 24, 2019

OMG BUNNIE THANK YOU FOR WRITING THIS!!!

I am such a black and white thinker. I often times find that I am also an All or Nothing kind of person.

You know what has slowed me down?
My head injury.

I became physically unable to continue the All or Nothing, balls to the wall, what the hell just happened pace that I always had.

That and I wanted to further my own personal growth. I wanted to see myself become another person. But as I am still black and white in my thinking. I do a lot of change by comparison. "I don't want to be that person".

Love your postings here !