New with Questions

New with Questions

Kbear​(sub female) • Apr 8, 2019

Hey guys. I have always been interested in this life style and have done a lot of research. It's scary to get into something new and so diverse, but I think it's time to talk to others with the same interests. So, I would love any idea/advice you would give to someone new coming into this life. I am a sub if that helps any. I am also very curious about different forms of release/play; what are some of your favorites?

MasterBear​(other butch) • Apr 9, 2019

Hello!!

This is abroad topic.
Can you explain what you mean by release/play?

MasterBear​(other butch) • Apr 9, 2019

https://www.scribd.com/document/163631556/BDSM-Checklist


Bdsm checklists her always a really good place to start when you're new. If you scroll through the forums here you'll see lists of books to read. I also suggest the website the submissiveguide.com. as well as yourkinkyfriends.com. And especially looking for munches and play in your area.


If you're looking for first time or advice. Never meet someone in a private space
Do not get tied up in private
Use your gut
Have fun


As far as stuff I love flogging is my go-to, caning, needles, clothespins, CBT, masturbation control, single-tail, above all types of activities it service that really gets me going.