Pyrotechnics(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Apr 11, 2019
punishments to deal with playful Sub
I am looking to make a list of punishments that can be used for a ddlg Sub that is playful and vary bratty any suggestions for me?
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MissBonnie(dom female){oz}
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5 years ago •
Apr 12, 2019
Its not really my area but thought it might of been over looked. Figure if I post a reply it will put it back on the page top and others will reply with ideas
Not expecting replies. Your profile reads that looking for a girl, so I'm going to assume this is for a "potential" partner. Its hard to write ideas for someone that we all have no idea about. But this might help for when you get a girl... What rocks your world? If it was a fantasy playing in you head, what does the scene look like? What fits within her limits and hers, where do your kink lists intersect? Does the punishment need to fit the crime? Does a lesson need to be learned from the correction? Is it for correction or a funishment? Is she even wired in a way that punishments work? if your stuck for ideas try porn and images. Make a file of those that interest you for times that you need that small spark to start things off. People can list off ideas but they really need to come from and be born in your wants and desires. Best of luck. |
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Bunnie
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5 years ago •
Apr 12, 2019
Hi @ Pyrotechnics,
Being a sub myself, I can only share thoughts from my side of the / (and what has been/ would be effective for me personally). Of course, everyone differs. Some things to consider... Firstly, I think it depends a lot as to whether or not she’s a masochist. And secondly, are you asking for an actual punishment or more just “funishment?” In my opinion... “generic” punishments aren’t as effective. You know her... you know her weaknesses... what would really make her think twice about doing the bad thing again. If it’s just more for fun... then sexual aspects seem to be the go-to. Spanking, denial or even forced orgasms etc etc. If not... some non-fun ones could be... (and a more personal punishment) removal of attention for an allotted time (I personally consider this very harsh... but everyone is different... however, also keep in mind that this can be very triggery or a hard limit for many), or privileges (can be seen as much the same thing depending on the basis of your dynamic) or something she loves (time online or phone or whatever). Less personal and more general, and less harsh (imo)... things that will educate (essays), writing lines, time out in the corner, difficult poses held for a timeframe. I think the most important aspect is for the punishment to “fit the crime,” so that the lesson is learned but not done with overkill. Hope this helps p.s. I’m sorry subbie... run!!!! Lol *actually don’t run... it’ll probably get you in more trouble ;D |
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Pyrotechnics(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Apr 12, 2019
Thanks for your feedback and I know that it must fit the crime and for your idea of removal of attention that is the absolute worst thing you can do to a little it’s borderline abuse
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Bunnie
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5 years ago •
Apr 12, 2019
Having Little tendencies... I know... hence the “allotted time” and “keep in mind that this can be very triggery or a hard limit for many.” I thought perhaps I had clarified that... obviously not. Thanks for clarifying
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Pyrotechnics(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Apr 12, 2019
its no problem i just wanted to make it clear to anyone that is reading this
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5 years ago •
Apr 12, 2019
Bunnie wrote: Having Little tendencies... I know... hence the “allotted time” and “keep in mind that this can be very triggery or a hard limit for many.” I thought perhaps I had clarified that... obviously not. Thanks for clarifying
I understood what you were saying ? One of my hardest limits but it would be silly to assume everyone is the same. |
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5 years ago •
Apr 12, 2019
oh guys and girls - we are in this thing called "life:' and when bells ring, you want everything sprayed with cement - get over yourselves == the magic of iife grows in the cracks of the pavement - you are sadly preprogrammed for each fart or tic and sadly are t way too easy predictable and boring. dealing with you and your microwave oven door that is marked "pleasure" but for only 36 seconds is a bore. you cannot become a flowering person if you get everything out of Drummer magazine 1983 (they went bankrupt,) then by your sad preprogramming you cant chane - how can anyone grow or change (which you don't want) if you are dedicated to your crumbs, It's Your own poverty of experience and fear - have an icecream Sir you mightl ike it andyour breath stinks.
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ZoomOut
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5 years ago •
Apr 12, 2019
Whoa. What’s wrong with interest in the inspiration and ideas of others? One can be creative themselves and appreciate the creativity in others. We don’t need to each invent the wheel on our own to feel authentic in a situation. We are free to decide if the ideas are appropriate and exciting for those involved.
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Pyrotechnics(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Apr 13, 2019
that comment was a bit uncalled for sub4
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