| Laurajessy(sub female) |
5 years ago •
Oct 4, 2019
Advice
Hello. I have some questions for the Subs out there. I am new to this lifestyle and are currently owned. It’s online for now but my Dom wants to meet me soon.
Could anyone tell me what it is I can expect, as a person who’s really new to this and how I could please Him the best? How do I prepare myself for something like this? Thank you for your help already! |
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Azzabackam(switch male){PawPawGirl}
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5 years ago •
Oct 5, 2019
Ask him.
No seriously, that's it. There's nothing universal about the lifestyle. Only your Dom can answer these questions. |
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MasterBear(other butch)
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5 years ago •
Oct 5, 2019
Ok. Deep breath- here goes....
What have you done to ensure your safety? Where will he be staying? Who are your safety nets? Are you prepared for this to go horribly wrong? What will you do if he breaks consent? I know that I sound all paranoid- BUT- You have no idea what this person is like IRT. You need to treat this as if he was a total stranger. He needs to stay at a hotel. You need to meet in neutral public spaces. I.E. NOT YOUR PLACE AND NOT HIS ROOM DO NOT DRINK DO NOT ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE TIED UP Take his picture and send it to trusted friends. Preferably a pic of his drivers liscense. What you are about to do is incredibly dangerous. My biggest piece of advice: Masturbate. Before you see him. Everyday. It will help you see him clearer and not through your crotch. DO NOT BECOME SOMEONE ELSES CAUTIONARY TALE. Use your head. If he doesnt like the restrictions and says he wont respect then --- he is already telling you that he will break consent. Can this go well? Yes. Can this end with an ID Special on internet love gone wrong? Yes. |
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Miki(masochist female)
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5 years ago •
Oct 5, 2019
I had 2 cents to offer..
BUT.. In my experience, MasterBear offers a great deal of valuable insight-- no strings attached. Heed the (potentially) old fart. ( Self-serving advertising as a true Brat Sub am I. Disregard the age-specific reference and just heed what he says, even if only as advice) But Un-tamed Brat I'll Always Be. ^_^ |
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