Chocolate Thunder(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Oct 31, 2019
[quote="AKittenforSir"]
Bunnie wrote: But then I ask myself: Is Sir happy? Do I obey when he asks me to do something? Am I accepting of his guidance and corrections? Do I willingly submit and offer my mind, body, and heart to him daily? Do I look for ways to please him even when he hasn’t asked? Do I defer to him for decisions? The answer to all of these things is yes, and that is submission at its core. I love the way this is put. If there is such a thing as a perfect sub, this would be my definition. Punishment shouldn't be a "WANT" to administer. To me that would be borderline abuser. It should only be applied as needed or if doing scenes. Granted there are those who thrive in that kind of situation so this does not apply. Thank you for this. |
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