Liliac(sub female)
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4 years ago •
Dec 1, 2019
Post-meet up sadness
So..this is not completely BDSM related but I have nowhere else to ask. My boyfriend and I met up finally. We are a long distance relationship couple. I fell hard and the time I met up with him was wonderful. So wonderful I cried bucket loads when I had to leave. And now..I am kind of depressed. I just miss him so much. And I know I will have to deal with it BUT I still miss him so damn much. I miss his touch, miss his laugh..everything and I am having difficulty coping with not seeing him for a long time again now that I got a taste of it. I cannot even tell my friends cause he's poly so no go for ranting it out to friends and family. What can I do to pick myself up? I am trying to be positive but I get sad even when I am about to sleep cause there is no one to cuddle with me anymore. Any advice please?
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| Shiruba Doragon(dom male) |
4 years ago •
Dec 1, 2019
Sounds like you've 'got it bad', love is wonderful and can be painful. Time is the great healer.
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alawey(sub female){(OWNED BY }
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4 years ago •
Dec 1, 2019
When my Wolf and i were apart. I had a tshirt of his. ( important thing is that is has his scent) i put it on one of my stuffies and slept with it .
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djinni(dom female){smplylaura}
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4 years ago •
Dec 1, 2019
I'm nearly 2 years into a LDR and I can tell you it doesn't get easier, actually for me it's worse. I usually get morose and cranky for a few days afterwards. Best to keep busy, volunteering is a wonderful way to distract yourself. It also fulfills the need to serve. Lots of self care and request a little more time from him until you are out of the feels.
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