I just feel lost.

bernalillo​(sadist male) • Mar 16, 2020

Dont isolate. Start meeting with other subs. Find out if you can identify with them. Do you even like this lifestyle? Is it something you are drawn to but dont know how to connect to? Talk to others. You'll find ones that have been where you are. You'll find hope and new things yo try out for yourself. Consider getting a protector to help counsel you and direct you.

Analslut​(sub female) • Mar 17, 2020

This is great info but as for myself who joined months ago, then also felt lost, became overwhelmed and ghosted. Yet kept peeking at the site due to the desires within me and not knowing where to start. Like termonologies and who to avoid and where to find help navigating.