2 months ago • 03/14/2020 4:37 am
eclecticslut(switch female) • 03/14/2020 4:37 am
Consider that people wearing them "out and about" may have little choice in the matter, for professional reasons. They may have a work dress code of "professional" or "business formal", which tends to include dresses or skirts for women, and appropriate hosiery. They may actually dislike them, or at least not be fond of them, so they want to be comfortable when not dressed for work.
Or perhaps their "kink Identity" is different than their "vanilla identity". They may be a "little" in the kink world, this may be their "escape" from the vanilla world where they are required to act like an adult, hose and all.
As with anything in the world, kink/fetish/BDSM isn't an all or nothing realm, it's a give and take, and ongoing negotiation. Instead of focusing on one fetish, focus on finding a compatible person to build a relationship with, and work into the hose.