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Illinois BDSM Scene

ThickAndShy​(sub female)
4 years ago • Apr 28, 2020

Illinois BDSM Scene

ThickAndShy​(sub female) • Apr 28, 2020
Hello I’m new to the lifestyle and was wondering if there is a good BDSM community in Illinois or any clubs to look into. I’m a 26 year old submissive looking for community support to gain experience and explore things more.
LordofPain56
4 years ago • Apr 29, 2020
LordofPain56 • Apr 29, 2020
I'm guessing you mean up Chicago way? If so, there's probably about a million options. I live downstate and it is a completely different world, but one could probably find something over in St. Louis, Missouri. I never cared about the BDSM scene, munches, public play parties or whatever. I am a private person.
You say you are a beginner. I suggest rather than charging headlong into "the public scene", you take some time to READ quality materials about different BDSM lifestyles first. They can be found on the internet (and I'm not talking smut sites).
Stuff I had in mind would be "taken in hand", "Christian Domestic Discipline (CDD)" or "Head-of-household (HOH) domination".
There's a lot to learn just in those. From there you can pick and choose.
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