Punishments

Skbunny	Skbunny 4 years ago • May 13, 2020 Punishments 4 years ago • May 13, 2020 Skbunny • May 13, 2020 What is the worst punishment you have ever recieved?

Gidgetbaby	Gidgetbaby 4 years ago • May 14, 2020 Punishments 4 years ago • May 14, 2020 Gidgetbaby • May 14, 2020 No punishment at all is dreadful
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Abyssful(sub female)	Abyssful(sub female) 4 years ago • May 15, 2020 4 years ago • May 15, 2020 Abyssful(sub female) • May 15, 2020 I am terrible with real punishments. They break my heart as I strive to be really really pleasing in all I do. Now a funishment, kneeling on rice on a cold day. So painful.

YaGottaBeKittenMe(sub female){Daddy}	YaGottaBeKittenMe(sub female){Daddy} 4 years ago • May 15, 2020 4 years ago • May 15, 2020 YaGottaBeKittenMe(sub female){Daddy} • May 15, 2020 Nipple clamps. They are now a hard limit for me.😔

liza(sub female)	liza(sub female) 4 years ago • May 19, 2020 4 years ago • May 19, 2020 liza(sub female) • May 19, 2020 My first Dom got mad at me and denied me any contact with him for 2 weeks. I thought I would lose my mind. It was awful.

AllOfMe(sub female)	AllOfMe(sub female) 4 years ago • May 21, 2020 4 years ago • May 21, 2020 AllOfMe(sub female) • May 21, 2020 No communication is the worst 😞

propertyforuse(sub female)	propertyforuse(sub female) 4 years ago • May 21, 2020 4 years ago • May 21, 2020 propertyforuse(sub female) • May 21, 2020 Kneeling on rice.

Mama Bear JJ(dom female){koa}

4 years ago • May 21, 2020

I have to agree with the statement that no punishment at all is the worst punishment. Not because it does anything to correct the behavior that makes punishment necessary, but because it does the exact opposite. It can lead to you engaging in the behavior, and other bad/inappropriate behaviors, more either in rebellion or out of inconsistency. Worse ... it can leave you feeling like the person meant to be carrying out the punishment doesn't really care about you or what you do at all. That feeling is a kind of punishment unrelated to what you did wrong, but far worse.

Would also say that withholding communication would be an equally bad punishment for me. And while I'm sure it's effective, I could also see it having the same kind of effects that no punishment at all can have. More of a setback mentally and emotionally, even if it improves the behavior that led to it happening in order to prevent it from happening again. I think I would be left feeling like the person withholding is implying that my behavior or me personally just isn't worth dealing with, so they aren't going to, and will be back when I decide not to be too difficult or too big of a problem anymore.

heartbrokengirl(sub female)	heartbrokengirl(sub female) 4 years ago • May 22, 2020 4 years ago • May 22, 2020 heartbrokengirl(sub female) • May 22, 2020 Got told I had disappointed my Daddy and he didn't talk to me for the day. We did talk in extent about it and I apologized, everything is good now.

lilbrattybutterfly(sub female)	lilbrattybutterfly(sub female) 4 years ago • May 22, 2020 4 years ago • May 22, 2020 lilbrattybutterfly(sub female) • May 22, 2020 My ass bared in a public space and spanked with a belt. By public I mean vanilla and like minded. In all honesty, I deserved punishment but that was a bit extreme.