My partner and I are fairly new to this. She wants me caged and I as her Submissive male want to respect her desires. The problem is my penis gets irritated if I wear it too long. Is caging your submissive male common and can anyone tell us how to stop the irritation? I enjoy being caged for my Domme but its physically harmful. What should we do? Thanks
Now I know this is gonna sound self-serving, and I even feel guilty of such - I will try the next size ring, but am pretty sure I tend to work my way out of that one - I've only had the CB for coupla months - before that purchase, I had maintained chastity without any accoutrements - same-same with my balls getting very painful ???
I started another thread several weeks ago contrasting chastity with celibacy - being prepared for the former, but not the latter.
Perhaps, with the issue I'm speaking of, this may be a way of easing into and enforced caging, whereby a negotiated process is in place, easing me and my sensitivities into longer encapsulation - not so I get to cum, nooooooo - you know, so I can go to work n all.
I would have no issue with prostate milkings and ruined orgasms - none, but, but...