The Journey of Finding a Daddy Dom

The Journey of Finding a Daddy Dom

sensualsubmissive​(sub female) • Aug 16, 2020

As many subs/babygirls/littles/kittens know that although we may know exactly what we want, it may not be so easy to find a daddy dom that suits our needs and wants. The short answer is having patience and getting to know others within the community which is a very logical response. Some that have been into BDSM for much longer would likely say that munches would be great to become involved in the community. In times like these during a pandemic online is what works best. We are able to learn about others both personally and their kinks/fetishes. Moreover, when it comes to online it can sometimes be hurtful when daddy doms can lead you on and then they realize that they in fact do not have the time that is needed to devote to BDSM on a daily basis whether giving tasks or carrying out the rules in order for the sub to follow them/get punished. Which makes you think if they knew they were not going to have time then why did they think it would work out? The truth is only they know the answer unless they decide to communicate it. In BDSM communication and understanding is so important because so much of it is based on very intimate moments that come with trust. The journey to find a daddy dom is not an easy one and that may be something that daddy doms may say about babygirls as well. Our journeys come with bumps on the road and lessons learned. Thus, nothing good ever comes from rushing, it is best to allow things to happen organically and that we take our time in finding that one daddy dom because with them we will share so many experiences both personally and especially in the bedroom. We are deserving of love while showing just as much love back and we should not expect anything less than that. For all of us daddy less babygirls out there, there is hope we just have to keep on searching.

KnottyBunny • Aug 16, 2020

Ok, pandemic...

Aquarius Dom​(dom male) • Aug 16, 2020

It’s a double edged sword , because Ddlg is probably the deepest emotional dynamic it’s fully dependent on maximum trust !
However the other side of the sword is its open to frauds n fakes to take advantage of !

My advice is always the same ! Trust your gut not your heart or genitalia!
Red flags are Red for a reason ! Danger lurks within ! Ignore at your peril !

A good Daddy doesn’t open conversations with demands , he seeks to understand your needs and wants , he takes his time in this because without a firm foundation the relationship will crumble !
Stay safe ............at all times !!!

Bunnie • Aug 16, 2020

@ sensualsubmissive,

beautifully stated I wish you the best on your search.