| Unicornvr |
5 years ago •
Aug 25, 2020
New to this
just looking for advice and such I am very interested in this and how to find a dom who can teach me. I am 49
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Sunshinegirl(sub female)
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5 years ago •
Aug 25, 2020
Step 1. Don’t look to a Dom to “teach you”. That’s a great way to get emotionally, mentally, and even physically abused. Especially “trainers” who demand nude pictures and other inappropriate things. Reach out to experienced submissive’s. Read the blogs and forums. When COVID isn’t tearing the world a new asshole, go to munches. They are super fun and informative!!! RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH. The internet is full of great articles. Even here they have great articles to read up if you look around.
I’m sure other people will fill out step 2-??? If not I’ll be back |
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| hank submissive male(sub male) |
5 years ago •
Aug 25, 2020
Sunshine is right you could also wind up in debt I was duped twice so now I am very careful about what I do online also if you meet someone online and they want to jump off and chat privately too fast it is pretty safe to say that it is probably a scam
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House Talion(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Aug 26, 2020
Post your questions to possible associates here while seeking this community within your area. Find freindship with those that share you opinion. From such found a Dom could be considered, but dont allow your eagerness to let you repeat the mistakes of others. Certainly all that seek shall find, but the best for us often found when we're not looking
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| Unicornvr |
5 years ago •
Aug 26, 2020
Thank u i will research and be careful
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Grey Eyes(sub female){Healing }
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5 years ago •
Aug 26, 2020
A few suggestions to you. As already mentioned, slow is the way to approach this. I also suggest you put more on your profile than you currently have. Are you interested in LTR? Do you want on-line only? Are you looking for the sexual side only? Looking for guidance in your life? TPE? Poly? What is your gut feeling about the direction you want to take?
While you may not know these answers yet, you may know for instance that you are interested in poly. Or that you want on line only. List those things on your profile. Arm yourself with knowledge before diving in. |
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Sir Don(dom male)
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5 years ago •
Aug 26, 2020
Don't be in a hurry, read profiles , read blogs. read forum post. As everyone else is saying research, read articles, knowledge is key. you don't want to go into any situation unarmed
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