What’s your love story...

I guess I’m in need of some inspiration

How did you meet each other? How did things progress? Where are you at now?

okay Bunnie we generally blog about our mushy stuff. I was in a empty dead marriage and I been doing some level of BDSM for 25 years. early this year I found the cage was on here roughly one month and I found Grey Eyes and the day she joined and we have not missed a day since i came to her after 2 months + and we are in real life 4 months . we just mesh together like we have know each other forever. I firmly believe we are twin flames.

And from my side. I am a widow. Came on the Cage and "met" Sir Don the first day. Started off as online with intent to eventually be IRL. We talked every day once we met because we have so much in common. After about nine weeks on line and on video chat, he came to my home for a visit....and never left. Over four months IRL and we are still together. Six month total since we met.

We talk and laugh frequently. Do we have bumps in the road? Oh yes we do. A few things that have helped us I think is that we are of a similar age. We have both been down painful paths. We were both looking for our "One", the last relationship of our lives. We emphasize communication with each other, work out our issues quickly and don't let them fester.

I met my Dominant while I was food shopping during a snowstorm.
That morning, of course my car decided not to start. The mechanic promised it by the afternoon. No, it wasn't ready.
Already running late, I took a taxi to the food market.
My Mom had a bad cold and I was just running out to get everything for a chicken soup.
He was food shopping and smiled..saying hello.
I explained that I was in a bit of a rush, as the taxi couldn't wait and the snow was beginning to really pile up.
He offered to help and drove me home in his Jeep.
In the backseat, was his wolf hybrid.
He brought the packages in, the wolf was invited in also.
Chicken soup was started, as he sat in the kitchen with a mug of cocoa and homemade butter cookies. We talked and laughed as though we had been together forever.
Our comfort level was instant.
The next day he stopped by my home unexpectedly - it was valentine's day.
He had red roses, box of chocolates, a collection of cds for me.
Explained that he had a flight to pilot and he'd see me when he returned home.
It developed into pure unconditional love.
We were together every single day , until I lost him to cancer.
It took a long time for me to heal...and I have.
I will say that he would be proud of the way I carried on with my life and what I accomplished.

I wish I had some romantic story.
He was my best friend in a group of friends for about 6 years, give or take before we got together. I was with someone else (yes it was D/s too). It ended on a very sour note after a gradual decline (he went mad and I shot him, actually I'm lying about the shooting him part LOL).
I then startlingly started to see my bestie in a new light. I think I fell in love with him one day over a coffee! I realized he was more to me! Know and acting on my new information took longer. I kept it quiet for about 12 months, then one day after I'd moved house, he came to stay with me on a long weekend. He asked where he could put his boots and his bag.... I had other female friends over and he's walked down the hall so I said under my breath " under my bed " ..he heard! 22 plus years together, I still have his boots under my bed and I still have my best friend.

We met here! In January of 2019 I sent her a message telling her that I liked her profile and would like to get to know her.

We messaged all day every day for days, switched to texts and phone calls, and after a couple weeks decided we needed to meet to see if there was a physical connection (both of us are strong believers in physical chemistry). I packed up, flew to Florida and we fell in love.

We traveled back and forth between Florida and Alabama almost every weekend (I believe over 40 round trips total between the two of us) over the next year. (luckily we were both in a place where we could handle that kind of travel both time wise and financially) Finally in February 2020 I found a remote job and moved to Florida. We have now lived together since then and are still happy living a 24/7 D/s life. We have our ups and downs and have had our growing pains, just like any other couple (nothing, and nobody, is perfect) but we are in it for the long haul and will continue to love and grow together.

Of course the lovely lady/kitten/rope bunny/masochist/little I am talking about is AkittenforSir

-JB

He’s been my brother’s best friend for 20 years, but we never really talked to each other before this year. He invited me for coffee, which I expected to be awkward and last an hour or so and mostly involve me talking and him grunting and scowling at me. Turns out, we had a lot to say to each other, and a lot to laugh about, so eight hours later we hugged and said our goodbyes. Two weeks later, the world had shut down, and he came to my place to hang out. We had a moment where the world hummed, colors were brighter, there was electricity between the two of us as we stood next to each other. We spent the rest of the evening trying to figure that out for ourselves before he finally asked if he could kiss me. Then we had a hilarious conversation about how neither of us wanted a relationship, how we both wanted to just have fun, how neither of us were ready for something serious. Less than 24 hours later, we realized we were both idiots if we didn’t try to make something of it, and we have now been together for five months. It seems crazy to us, like we were made for each other. We complement each other so well. We moved in together two months ago and have our own version of 24/7 D/s and it’s perfect. I mean, we obviously have bumps and rough patches, but we are partners and we love each other and we are in this together and it makes the rough patches smoother.

My next one..... can’t wait!

Tinder

Over several months of on and off talking, then full on D/s, then we both evolved.

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