A wonder happend but I dont know what to do

subbyboiXx(sub male)

4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020

A wonder happend but I dont know what to do

4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020

So a Dom messaged me and well things as such happen in life of every sub but this Dom... well this Dom is kinda a perfect match for my sexual desires.
Additionaly, he isnt a jerk, to my greatest suprise.
The thing is, he wants to meet me in a hotel room.
And I'm scared cos I'm not 100% sure that he wont murder me or things of this kind.
It would be a one night stand, without sleeping with him.
Should I go? Are there ways to proe that he wont do anything bad to me?

SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕}	SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕} 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕} • Sep 28, 2020 How long have you spoken with him?

subbyboiXx(sub male)	subbyboiXx(sub male) 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 subbyboiXx(sub male) • Sep 28, 2020 A day

House Talion(dom male)	House Talion(dom male) 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 House Talion(dom male) • Sep 28, 2020 No. All such meetings should happen publicly to ensure safety. Once YOU beleive private meetings would be okay, then it can happen
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subbyboiXx(sub male)	subbyboiXx(sub male) 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 subbyboiXx(sub male) • Sep 28, 2020 yeah but I dont know if there will ever be a chance for a public meeting. Like there is no kinky spaces in Poland and honestly I dont rly have much about to talk with him so. And well knowing myself I will always be anxious and distrustful towards such things

slavebilly(sub male)	slavebilly(sub male) 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 slavebilly(sub male) • Sep 28, 2020 I would meet in a public place

Aquarius Dom(dom male)

4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020

Trust your gut feeling if it feels wrong don’t do it , or may even meet for a social coffee away from the hotel ! Also have a safety person that knows where you are , who you are with , and expected timings ! Always contact them at least twice once at the start of the meeting and once at the end ! Plus remember SSC and RACK

Good luck

Solace(dom male)	Solace(dom male) 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 Solace(dom male) • Sep 28, 2020 Trust is earned. I'm not saying don't be bold and challenge yourself to be brave, I'm saying that you need a reason to give your trust to someone.

SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕}	SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕} 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕} • Sep 28, 2020 I have strong feelings AGAINST having sex with someone you barely know. That just turns something special into...well, not. No, do not meet in private. Meet for coffee/dinner/skating/rock collecting/trash collecting...ANNNNYTHING but sex....

bigolebubba(dom male)	bigolebubba(dom male) 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 4 years ago • Sep 28, 2020 bigolebubba(dom male) • Sep 28, 2020 I concur...public place first. Your safety is first and foremost.