tallslenderguy(kinky male)
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5 years ago •
Sep 29, 2020
5 years ago •
Sep 29, 2020
When i was younger and trapped in a religious mind set, trying to not be who i am, i would fantasize about a guy who would kidnap me and take me to live captive on his remote estate. All the things i longed for were contained in that fantasy, without the added burden of having to choose those things that conflicted with my notions of "God." What i was really wanting is a solution to my delemma, someone who would 'make' me do something i really wanted but could not bring my self to go for because of my own cognitive dissonance. The desire for hypnosis seems a similar fantasy?
As MissBonnie notes, science pretty much shows one cannot be hypnotized to do something they do not, at some level, want in the first place. Though i have encountered people on both sides (i.e., hypnotist/hypnotized) who insist there is a way to manipulate and circumvent the will of the hypnotized, i haven't seen scientific evidence to support it? Of course, science is an ongoing process, so science may not have discovered this aspect of hypnosis and "further studies are needed?"
i get the appeal. i have a strong draw to guys into mind fuck, for me that is central to the D/s relationship. For me, a Dom is someone who wants a D/s relationship where He identifies (through all sorts of methods), 'collars,' exposes then influences/'handles' me through our mutual 'kinks.' i've had a long time attraction to 'grooming' as well, which to me is also in the same category as hypnosis.
i've experienced a Guy who used massage and a sort of ongoing monologue that retrospectively seemed like He was using hypnotic technique on me to, as Miss Bonnie states, "relax" (and open) me.
i've also watched several of those "hypnosis videos/trainers." On their own, they lack power or appeal for me, but i imagine if a Dom guy used them with me they might be an effective tool for Him to influence me. That, for me, is true about pretty much all things in D/s, like toys for instance. i have a whole drawer full that i never use because it feels 'fake' for me to try using them on myself, like am trying to top myself... but i am not a top. Same with the hypno vids... i think they would take on a whole different color if used by a Dom with me because ultimately my need/desire is to submit to an actual Dom, not a fantasy of a dom.
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