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SouthCanadien​(sub male)
3 years ago • Nov 27, 2020

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SouthCanadien​(sub male) • Nov 27, 2020
Need advice. I am considered a sub; but my girlfriend is a definite sub, and likes DDLS or DDLG. I know the acronym, but unsure how to perform as a daddy dom if I am so used to being a sub. Help me out here?
Miki
3 years ago • Nov 28, 2020
Miki • Nov 28, 2020
So you're a sub who wants to switch. If you are sure that is something you can enjoy, broach the subject with her. If, as you wrote, she's into it, you should have a smooth starting point. But since you're not experienced on that side of the paddle, so to speak, you would do well to read up on what other, more experienced doms go through to get where you're at. It's more than it seems on the outside. It's more than you'd see on kink porn. For many it is a developing dynamic. A symbiosis, if you will.

Slow and steady wins the race, Fella.
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SouthCanadien​(sub male)
3 years ago • Nov 28, 2020
SouthCanadien​(sub male) • Nov 28, 2020
Thanks, I had a fling 2 weeks ago, and I was comfortable with that girl; and this girl, we've been close for years, I don't expect to have anything occur overnight. Any links or blogs would be useful. We've discussed what she is okay with.
snowflakesixnine
3 years ago • Nov 28, 2020
snowflakesixnine • Nov 28, 2020
Hey can you talk about that this this is I’m new