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SirsGoodGirl​(sub female)
4 years ago • Jun 11, 2020
SirsGoodGirl​(sub female) • Jun 11, 2020
MissBonnie wrote:
thumb tacks inside bras/underwear/chairs.
Self paddle your butt and place sand paper inside your underwear or sit on it and masturbate (you'll wriggle either way)
positions can be made situational (as in hard to hold causing muscle pain and if you do.....you say lower lower yourself into something painful, so the results are is inescapable. Just be careful and remember safety, you do need a way to avoid both situations as your placing yourself in them)
zippers are another good one. Easy to make if you don't have one. Pegs (AKA clothes pins to non Aussies) tied in row on string. Leave for a few minutes and rip off. The pain of the pegs bite then you get the added blood rush into the compression with the ripping off.

most masos have a "style of pain" know what rocks your world might help with more ideas. Do you like a slow build up. Quick short and sharp? thuddy? etc. does your Owner have a preferred style s/he likes to see?


Some interesting suggestions here, much appreciated! I’m currently exploring my masochistic side and so I’m not sure I’ve quite found my “style” yet, having lots of fun learning though. It has been great to receive suggestions on my thread icon_smile.gif
TalentedOptimist​(dom male){open}
3 years ago • Jan 6, 2021
Going back to what Miss Bonnie said, many masochists and slaves have their own style of pain. Have to get the recipe right.
My subs prefer non-marking, no blood/piercing, play, so that leaves me with a variety of options.

For discipline and fun play:
Board games and dice with the bets being on treatments, chores, positions.
Motivation games are fun. I like to add positivity, progress, and learning life skills into my domination play.

For punishment:
Tabata rounds: Burpees, squats, push-ups
Then planks on rice.
Timed tickling (tie-up sub and tickle for 1 minute, then 50 seconds, then 45 seconds, and so on with less and less break time in between)
I had one submissive, her ultimate pain was being made to study math while in the plank position. Every time she got an answer wrong, a new position, spanking, deepthroat training, and a Tabata round.

Spanking and orgasm denial are mixed in at random.
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Positive reinforcement play is something I've been working with also.
Naturenurture​(sub female)
3 years ago • Jan 6, 2021
Flogging yourself or cropping.

Nipple clamps play.

Holding a position submissive position for a long time, naked. While thinking of what he would do to you, while you hold it.
Creative positions too.

All filming yourself doing it for Him. icon_smile.gif
Maybe these were said bit just my 2 cents.
Naturenurture​(sub female)
3 years ago • Jan 6, 2021
Naturenurture wrote:
Flogging yourself or cropping.

Nipple clamps play.

Holding a position submissive position for a long time, naked. While thinking of what he would do to you, while you hold it.
Creative positions too.

All filming yourself doing it for Him. icon_smile.gif
Maybe these were said bit just my 2 cents.



Corset wearing. A nice reminder of His hold on you.
Rope ...learn about how to tie yourself up. Safely, of course.
Quirkyrebel​(sub female)
3 years ago • Jan 8, 2021
Quirkyrebel​(sub female) • Jan 8, 2021
A hairband? I'd rather be punished over and over with that. Some of these is too extreme for me. Why not try a paddle or whip? Hair has smacked my face plenty of times! Still staring at a plastic bat and thinking...

"Sir mentioned using something on me. But it's been four days! Yeah I didn't respond to the goal. But does my explanation make up for it? lol"

What's the fun of feeling pain? If you don't massage sore muscles with a hard, plastic bat! I might think, "no pain!"

But truth is... Pain is what makes me feel alive! Insanity is what causes me not to care. And interest is what causes me to hesitate.

I like bed sores because they actually remind me of how safe I am! Lazy yet blunt. And confusing but trainable. lmao!
House Talion​(dom male)
3 years ago • Jan 10, 2021
House Talion​(dom male) • Jan 10, 2021
If you love that hair band idea you can try the same thing as rubber bands on your wrists and brests. Some ppl love bouncing on butt plugs, but I've never enjoyed anything about anal. Gator clips can be put practicly anywhere, you can get a cheap set of 10 from curtain rings. Just wish I lived in a place with an a-team cause I got an i-beam clamp
Miki​(masochist female)
3 years ago • Jan 10, 2021
Miki​(masochist female) • Jan 10, 2021
For me.. humiliation is very helpful. Like being rigged up and whipped with some like-minded people watching. Perhaps for me at least it's how to roll more than just pain. But, as with anything else in this realm, "To each their own"