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CBT does it really hurt ..

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DADDYDAVE​(sub male)
1 year ago • Thu 07 Dec 2017 10:10:36 PM IST

CBT does it really hurt ..

DADDYDAVE​(sub male) • Thu 07 Dec 2017 10:10:36 PM IST
No ..
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Byrdie​(dom female){rl only}
8 months ago • Tue 15 May 2018 06:01:40 AM IDT
Byrdie​(dom female){rl only} • Tue 15 May 2018 06:01:40 AM IDT
From my limited understanding in topping for it, the possible answers are the same as with much of kink:

* define "pain"?
* hell yes, and it's awesome!
* hello no, and it's awesome!
* well, it gets my endorphins going.
* it puts me in sub / bottom space.
* it's proof of my trust in my top / dominant / grand poobah

... etc.

I know of one person who experienced pain from getting ballbusted, but never felt nausea - just pain, endorphin rushes, and subspace. It's probably different for a lot of people.
MissBonnie​(dom female){}
8 months ago • Wed 16 May 2018 04:09:49 PM IDT
MissBonnie​(dom female){} • Wed 16 May 2018 04:09:49 PM IDT
Byrdie wrote:
* it's proof of my trust in my top / dominant / grand poobah .


Hey! unfair I now need to clean coffee off my KB. thanks for the giggle that turned into a snort.
Miki​(masochist female)
5 months ago • Sat 28 Jul 2018 05:58:09 PM IDT
Miki​(masochist female) • Sat 28 Jul 2018 05:58:09 PM IDT
Thankfully I don't have those.. But since the quickest self defense technique they teach us when we're young as to fending off would-be rapists is to deliver unto him a swift kick in the "boys"--- thereby pretty much stopping his attack, --I'd say "ball busting" and sexual arousal wouldn't mix for most dudes.