what do you look for

creidsinn • Mar 3, 2021

i have to like the D as a person first. Definitely dominant, but not domineering. Someone who sees me as important to Their life, not just an accessory. Intelligence, humor and compassion... an ability to be just quiet.

Age is important, (right or wrong) i struggle to submit to Someone significantly younger than myself.

Kinks matter to a point, but honestly if i connect with Someone, i want what they want. I’ve changed limits in each D/s dynamic i have been in.... not all limits, but many. As a D should, They have pushed me in new areas, and i’ve grown and changed.

K y i v • Mar 3, 2021

There is no need to look or even think. When the connection is right it is obvious to both. Looking is forcing it...you will fail!