1 month ago • 03/04/2021 6:42 pm
shortylotus • 03/04/2021 6:42 pm
I dont think it's a matter of you being to nice. You are who you are. It boils down to does your personality work with the dynamic between you. I personally need a very loving, hard on my back asshole type of Dom. Someone who will put me in my place and keep me there. After that I can be submissive to him. Does it mean if a Dom is softer he is less of a Dom? Of course not. I just know what my needs are and what works for me, but that's not to say it wouldn't work for someone else.