That One Word

Dragonlove​(sub female) • Apr 16, 2021

1. Kinky

Have to go with this if I could only chose one word. I honestly wouldn't use it as a label though overall in general conversation.

2. Both


3. No

In the beginning I was still feeling I was somehow weird for my wants. I've learned that is complete untrue and definitely don't think the same way now.

SageFlame​(sub female) • Apr 16, 2021

My answer to my questions:

1. Explorers
I'm truly put off by segregation of any kind and this word fits what I see and have experienced thus far. BDSM to me is simply an aspect of life that can be explored. I don't see it as a dividing factor. I've never fit with a click or group and I'm cool with that.

2. Group
But for me it's just part of being adventurous. ( an adventurer)

3. No.
When the curtain pulled back I was 100% curious and began researching. That is, enough to know there was a ton of stereotypes and stigma. I couldn't put one word to such diverse experiences and inconsistant information. It was like . . . Ah ha. . .what's this?
But that was then.

Kink isn't mainstream. Or is it? I wonder about this also. Perhaps the difference lies in those who dare to explore and those who wouldn't. ( desires buried)

Another question for another time.

Dragonlove​(sub female) • Apr 16, 2021

Sage, you definitely need to do a thread on that one! I won't say anymore on it though

😶

DeliciouslyDelicate • Apr 16, 2021

1. Adventurous!!! 😜
2. Both
3. Yes. I think it's an adventure for all of us!