firstflyer(switch female)
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3 years ago •
Apr 15, 2021
Books and teachings
What are some of your suggested books for beginners learning more about bdsm. Teachings on how to be a sub/how to be a dom?
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Berlin(sub female){Collared}
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3 years ago •
Apr 15, 2021
Screw the Roses, send me Thorns! It's extensively detailed and provides illustrations to the chapter!
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firstflyer(switch female)
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3 years ago •
Apr 15, 2021
Thank you so much. On my search for it, I also found this list. I'm going to post it here in case anyone is out searching for some good content as well: http://wonder-woman.info/ds/
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Villanelle(staff)
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3 years ago •
Apr 15, 2021
You'll find some good info if you follow this link including a few authors we admire:
https://thecage.co/magazine,1.html |
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firstflyer(switch female)
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3 years ago •
Apr 15, 2021
Thank you Villanelle, I did go through those and yes it is very helpful
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3 years ago •
May 10, 2021
What i use is ' different loving ' by DR Gloria Brame- its a view of BDSM written by a woman ( very rare ) you can find it here - as i use it in training of my newbies - very insightful.
best of luck |
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DrWakko
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3 years ago •
May 11, 2021
This might help: https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=159&blog_id=83
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MissBonnie(dom female){oz}
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3 years ago •
May 12, 2021
I know this not what people want to hear....but all those resources are pirate copies listed on wonderwomans (long abandoned site from when her partner trev died)
my whine: The authors of those books receive no payment for them. If we kinksters want GOOD authors to continue writing good resources we need to stop pirating and promoting illegal activities (also: if you want to been seen in a positive light for doing BDSM then what you do, needs to be positive too. AKA be legal doing so). We also need to obey copyright laws or governments will step in FURTHER and further tighten what BDSM sites can do and publish (gawd knows its already a nightmare as it is where website owners walk in a VERY grey area) promotion of such site is ILLEGAL . We need to support the ACTUAL authors we admire and purchase legal copies! ok rant over LOL now go read! |
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MrFulmen
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3 years ago •
May 12, 2021
As a kink-ed author myself, I appreciate MissBonnie's call not to stiff the authors you want to learn from.
Different Loving is a great book and you could buy a copy here: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/17419/different-loving-by-gloria-brame/ Even if you've already read a stolen PDF, if you found a book valuable, you could pay for a copy in order to get back into integrity with the value that you gained from it. And you could consider not sharing a link to a site that's ripping off all the kink educators you say you admire. |
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Villanelle(staff)
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3 years ago •
May 12, 2021
We've removed the unauthorized link to Dr. Brame's work which I am sure everyone will understand. Gloria Brame is one of our recommended authors in our "Let's Get You Started" magazine article. Her official website is http://gloriabrame.com/ and she is also active on Twitter. If you aren't familiar with her work do check it out.
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