Punishments

Punishments

critthatch​(sub female) • Aug 23, 2021

Hi.
I’m fairly new to the submissive lifestyle and I’m interested in some of the punishments (non-bedroom related) that my fellow subs get given?

curious dee​(switch female) • Aug 23, 2021

Master and I have an online only dynamic. When I get punished he will simply tell me goodbye, talk to you (enter when punishment is over) usually a few hours or overnight...then he won't respond to me...it also helps that regular communication is major for me. I learned quickly lol.

MrFulmen • Aug 23, 2021

Punishments (or whether punishment is used at all) are highly individual to different peoples' different relationships, but if you want some general examples to give you ideas:

https://www.consensualdominance.com/four-ways-to-punish-your-submissive/

DrWakko • Aug 23, 2021

In my opinion if you are worried about the punishments you are either entering the wrong type of dynamic for yourself or you are worried about the wrong thing.

I don’t know anyone currently in a relationship who is worried about being punished. They don’t even worry about if they got something right. They worry if they went above and beyond and what level of super happy their partner will be.

DW

acupcake​(sub female) • Aug 23, 2021

I remember some time ago when there was a suspicion that I was not being loyal. It wasn't true, I am very loyal and I'd never do anything to cheat. Anyway She didn't talk to me for six weeks and three days. It was horrible. Having communication cut off like that with someone you love is like being gagged. Anyway it's in the past now.

sarah

emeX​(sub male) • Aug 23, 2021

These may be considered punishments, but as a slave, i just viewed them as services rendered. It's about obeying commands, blocking feelings towards them...because whether i liked them (or not) was/is/and always will be irrelevant.

Being chained to the toilet or towel hanger for 24 hrs.
Fully cuffed restrained inside a dog cage which included starvation (kept outside).
Extreme objectification by family/friends (foot stool, mouth-ash-tray, toilet paper, etc).
Made to wear oversized butt plug, undersized chastity, and slave collar/leash in public.
Sent out to do simple chores for friends/family, such as dishes washing, folding laundry, Starbucks delivery.
Public "humiliation" (foot message in crowd, carrying everyone's bags/purses/drinks, finger snapping, name calling etc)
Standing in the corner at a dinner party, face to wall, naked.

Just a few interesting ones.

House Talion​(dom male) • Aug 23, 2021

I keep telling my wife that I'm gonna take away her cell phone if she keeps getting distracted by social media so easily.

EagerToPleaseYou​(sub female)​{Owned} • Aug 23, 2021

Here are some punishments that I have been given in the past:
Standing or kneeling in the corner, kneeling on rice, spanking myself, writing sentences or letter of apology, exercising longer than I would like to, no coffee, wearing a certain color nail polish that I don't care for

Sasa​(dom female) • Aug 24, 2021

It is individual but for sure nothing on subs kink wishlist. In my case I don’t enjoy to give punishment. It means something serious happened before and that hurt me too … who would like that. But if so I do it fast to have it done and move on. I believe the first one I have to give shouldn’t be forgotten easily, but mostly when I am truly disappointed it is enough. Don’t mix it with play.

Cressida Clytie​(masochist female)​{Taken} • Aug 24, 2021

Kneeling on Rice / Salt/ Mung Beans
Figging