Steellover(sub male)
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2 years ago •
Oct 9, 2021
If this is not okay to ask, forgive me but, do women- specifically dominant women, enjoy GIVING anal play to straight men? Do they derive true enjoyment of penetrating their male subs with a strap on, or is this more of a one-way street as far as pleasure/enjoyment?
I get aroused by the intense sub-space feel it gives me: An indescribably unique and powerful blend of pleasure, pain, and utter, quivering submission to the one wielding the appendage. But I cannot speak to how much the "top" enjoys giving it. I've only been on the receiving end! |
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SweetG(sub female)
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2 years ago •
Oct 9, 2021
Steel,
Thank you for asking the question. To be honest I've never physically performed the act of pegging but I have thought about it. While watching it out in porn where a woman Pegs a man it does turn me on. OK boy.... guess I'm going to get honest and open here. It turns me on as an act of dominance but more greatly as an act of intimacy. Most of the videos I've seen had the woman doing doggy. That's not what I desire... I would want to do it face to face. I like your words.... "An indescribably unique and powerful blend of pleasure, pain" that's what is attractive to me. To tease, small amounts of tortue, orgasm control. That is what would be enjoyable to me as the top. Enough out of me. Sweetly, Miss Gina |
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| FourWaySwitch(switch male) |
2 years ago •
Oct 9, 2021
As a young switch I believe it mainly depends on whether it is compatible with your personal identity. Whether thats gender or simply who you think that you are, some people may not associate anal with something that fits the person they believe themselves to be. Some men definitely associate anal sex with homosexuality and refrain from it for that reason, but at the same time others may engage with it more for a similar reason if they enjoy humiliation.
To each their own but I think it's your asshole and therefore isn't a matter of sexuality, that is if sexuality is about what gender you are attracted to. I've always found it to be one of the most appealing parts of submission. |
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2 years ago •
Oct 11, 2021
Re: Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs? dhail wrote: I've had more play with older subs and I've never really had an issue with them not being willing to be dominated through anal play. However, in my search for a younger sub (I'm under 35 myself), I've found that many are extremely hesitant about anal and list it as a hard limit. However, for me, anal is domination in its purest form and I've found it to be satisfying for both myself and my subs.
Just wondering if anyone else has noticed this. I don't know if it has to do with a toxic concept of masculinity preventing them from truly submitting, but if I were outside of the community I would have guessed younger subs would be more openminded (no offense to either age group - these are pure observations). |
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2 years ago •
Oct 11, 2021
Steellover wrote: If this is not okay to ask, forgive me but, do women- specifically dominant women, enjoy GIVING anal play to straight men? Do they derive true enjoyment of penetrating their male subs with a strap on, or is this more of a one-way street as far as pleasure/enjoyment?
I get aroused by the intense sub-space feel it gives me: An indescribably unique and powerful blend of pleasure, pain, and utter, quivering submission to the one wielding the appendage. But I cannot speak to how much the "top" enjoys giving it. I've only been on the receiving end! |
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| Kinkyeddie(sub male) |
2 years ago •
Oct 11, 2021
Anal play is a touchy subject especially for men that are straight, as someone stated Up above (Men have hard,soft limits &That has to be respected regardless. Submissives probably saw pictures or watched Porn videos of femdoms pegging there sub with massive 15in strap ONS & most likely scared might rip anal tissue. Or maybe They might end up liking it& Might want the real thing due to Unsecured about the sexuality.
Personally myself I love anal play it feels so damn good especially once it goes over the prostate & most definitely it's Male Submission to a female to peg them with there strap on. Not all men will give up there anal. (But if your looking for a submissive that likes it I'm right here. I'm looking for a partner) |
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| nuovacane(switch male) |
2 years ago •
Oct 11, 2021
Anal play is great for feeling truly submissive. Being fucked in the arse while my Domme's tits rub against my back and she pins me down, hopefully with the aid of some restraints is heaven
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