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FabSeverus​(dom male) • Jul 25, 2018

hi kinksters

so this is not a critic or shaming exercise,
but I had some spare time and was reading some ads to see how they compare to mine, and I was a bit amused then chocked by some of them.
So as a submissive how do you read these ads and make you interested by the dom/top?
Do you prefer a long and tedious ad or a short, concise one.
I saw both stating: "looking for a sub whos willing to do what I told" to an endless one stating how good he is at making multiple orgasm, training many subs and all the details about his prowess...

curiouskittyy​(sub female){GentlemanX} • Jul 25, 2018

Hmm this is an interesting topic! ?

Well - I tend to not really read them much anymore and that’s mostly because they seem to be the same adds posted day after day. Secondly, I personally dislike it when Doms ask to be addressed in a particular way from the onset or ask for someone willing to relocate and be their live in Slave? I mean slow it down there bucko! Thirdly ...now this may sound a little controversial, as everyone is entitled to want/crave/desire what they will. But again (personally), It rather annoys me when Doms seem to have highly specific expectations from a sub that doesn’t seem at all realistic. For example, a 60 year old overweight Dom Male asking for a female sub/slave and specifying that she should not be over the age of 25, or bigger then a certain dress size. Lastly, I can’t stand it when anyone asks for a discreet relationship, going behind their partners back, yet at the same time demanding trust and honestly from a sub. It makes no sense to me. So I’ve given up reading the adds ??‍♀️

But to answer your question, I think adds that are short and concise, highlighting what it is the Dom is looking for and with realistic expectations, would certainly get MY attention more.

FabSeverus​(dom male) • Jul 25, 2018

Thanks CuriousKitty1002,

My interest was motivated by another topic about how hard is to find a real Dom, and I thought maybe its down to the way they express their search for a sub.
And yes most of them probably still dont have a sub or even a reply to their ads.
Their ads reflect their point of view of a sub, not a human beeing but a cattle market, most of the time a highly sexually reason for having a sub??
But you mention too the demanding for adressing him as Sir straight away?? again a wrong point of view about the submission


I cant judge on the discreet rl, it works both way, some subs accept this fact and sometime they are in the position when their partners are not into it too, but need their fantaisy to be fulfil

well my ads is short but I think I get interest with my stories on the blogs, also english is not my mother tongue so it might not really reflect what I want to say, but I get on

curiouskittyy​(sub female){GentlemanX} • Jul 25, 2018

Yes, most of the Doms on here are really nice and I think they just don’t showcase this very well in their adds. I guess when it comes to a discreet relationships then it’s certainly between those who are involved. If they are both happy then that’s all that matters. I just find it a little hypocritical to talk about honesty and trust in an add when you aren’t setting the best example.

Yes - I am a follower or your blog ❤️ Great work.

Emerald Knight​(dom male) • Jul 26, 2018

I know this is off topic.

But hello fellow Slytherin member.

FabSeverus​(dom male) • Jul 26, 2018

Hmm yes it is? Also there is already a hello welcome page for the one who want to introduce themselves?
https://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?t=102
But hello anyway

rosethorn​(sub female) • Jul 26, 2018

cattle market seems to be an adequate way of wording it

FabSeverus​(dom male) • Jul 26, 2018

@rosethorn, its sad to see the way bdsm turn into.

Emerald Knight​(dom male) • Jul 26, 2018

I had already posted there. But I saw your name and thought , I gotta say hello lol.