Fyglia Wicked(dom female)
|
2 years ago •
Dec 25, 2021
If you cant have an open conversation with someone you think you want to enter into a dynamic with you better revaluate things.
Whatever problems you have in vanilla life will follow you into this lifestyle. |
|
|
Online now
Spellbound Wytch{Mr. Parker}
|
2 years ago •
Dec 25, 2021
Fyglia Wicked wrote: If you cant have an open conversation with someone you think you want to enter into a dynamic with you better revaluate things.
Whatever problems you have in vanilla life will follow you into this lifestyle. I've known more than one person who thought that by entering into a D/s relationship that would *solve* their problems - convinced their mental issues that sabotaged their vanilla relationships would *somehow* be looked up as an asset in the kink life. These were very needy types who depended on someone else to take over their "adulting" and take care of them and in return they just needed to be available for kinky sex and a light spanking every once in a while. I guess that's a revealing statement about just how DEEP their issues really were ... |
|
|
BloodofSzekai(dom male)
|
2 years ago •
Dec 26, 2021
WytchyWoman wrote: Fyglia Wicked wrote: If you cant have an open conversation with someone you think you want to enter into a dynamic with you better revaluate things.
Whatever problems you have in vanilla life will follow you into this lifestyle. I've known more than one person who thought that by entering into a D/s relationship that would *solve* their problems - convinced their mental issues that sabotaged their vanilla relationships would *somehow* be looked up as an asset in the kink life. These were very needy types who depended on someone else to take over their "adulting" and take care of them and in return they just needed to be available for kinky sex and a light spanking every once in a while. I guess that's a revealing statement about just how DEEP their issues really were ... It would solve their problems. BDSM is therapy for people who normal therapy doesn't work on. I know that's a TERRIBLE thing to say in this community but gfy if you don't like it.  ♂️
|
|
|
|
Fyglia Wicked(dom female)
|
2 years ago •
Dec 26, 2021
BloodofSzekai wrote: WytchyWoman wrote: Fyglia Wicked wrote: If you cant have an open conversation with someone you think you want to enter into a dynamic with you better revaluate things.
Whatever problems you have in vanilla life will follow you into this lifestyle. I've known more than one person who thought that by entering into a D/s relationship that would *solve* their problems - convinced their mental issues that sabotaged their vanilla relationships would *somehow* be looked up as an asset in the kink life. These were very needy types who depended on someone else to take over their "adulting" and take care of them and in return they just needed to be available for kinky sex and a light spanking every once in a while. I guess that's a revealing statement about just how DEEP their issues really were ... It would solve their problems. BDSM is therapy for people who normal therapy doesn't work on. I know that's a TERRIBLE thing to say in this community but gfy if you don't like it. ♂️Sit down Dom boi |
|
|
|
BloodofSzekai(dom male)
|
2 years ago •
Dec 26, 2021
Fyglia Wicked wrote: BloodofSzekai wrote: WytchyWoman wrote: Fyglia Wicked wrote: If you cant have an open conversation with someone you think you want to enter into a dynamic with you better revaluate things.
Whatever problems you have in vanilla life will follow you into this lifestyle. I've known more than one person who thought that by entering into a D/s relationship that would *solve* their problems - convinced their mental issues that sabotaged their vanilla relationships would *somehow* be looked up as an asset in the kink life. These were very needy types who depended on someone else to take over their "adulting" and take care of them and in return they just needed to be available for kinky sex and a light spanking every once in a while. I guess that's a revealing statement about just how DEEP their issues really were ... It would solve their problems. BDSM is therapy for people who normal therapy doesn't work on. I know that's a TERRIBLE thing to say in this community but gfy if you don't like it. ♂️Sit down Dom boi No u |
|
|