First few days/weeks

Miki​(masochist female) • Jul 4, 2022

Good grief.. So many posts and walls of text:

I hate that...

I'll cut to the chase.

Ever heard of K.I.S.S.??

Keep it Simple, Sweetheart ( or "Stupid")

In short.. "Few Days Few Weeks" The operative word is "Few"


When you (rhet) meet someone and the early vibes can be compared to fingernails-on-a-chalk-board.. Those are the warning signs to get out ASAP. Meet them but don't let them "meat" you.


Other than that.. Time heals all.. and proves all.. If the dude is worth the length of his cock-- you'll know it.


But not right off the bat.

(even if a dude has a Louisvile Slugger between his legs)

$0.02

LordofPain56 • Jul 4, 2022

Under consideration??? IDK
If ever I have been in contact with someone who seems to be interested, I trade messages and send her my full detailed profile (not the short version on this site). The intent is to have her message back with any questions, concerns or deal-breakers. If a compromise can't be reached, the pursuit is over.
If she is agreeable to everything, I have her send me a detailed list of her characteristics, habits, lifestyle, etc and the process starts over. If her list is acceptable, we discuss meeting in person and further on down the line, we discuss commitment.
Under consideration sounds like someone is already dating and not looking for other prospects at this time.