3 months ago • Aug 31, 2022
I'mME • Aug 31, 2022
I have never heard or read the thought that some of high protocol is seen as abuse. Where do you read or hear that?
SSC is a school or thought but there is also R. A. C. K.
Risk Aware Consensual Kink
You may already know about it. The thing is if you are in a relationship already, which by some of the answers I have read, you are, and it seems like a long one.
Are you wanting to implement high protocol?
What type of protocol do you want to implement? Would this be outside of the home, maybe events, dungeons, all these type things are factors to consider. Does your partner work? Are you going to expect the same level of protocol during their work time?
And for yourself, it will add more to your load, teaching [training] .
My advice would be for communication to become something you are very very good at?
And for there to be a time when your partner can speak freely and for you to understand what they are saying without getting upset.
Perhaps y'all already have those time periods.
Is this something you are determined to have and what if your partner decides that they do not like certain aspects or any of it.
These are all the things that come to my mind when moving to high protocol. If you are not abusive now, I do not think you will become the person who does not care bout their sub.
Just the fact that you are asking , is one of the ways that you will not become so swept up that you forget about what is important.
There are several books by the same authors who writes about this topic.
Master/slave Mastery -- Protocols: Focusing the intent of your relationship by [M Jen Fairfield, Robert J. Rubel]
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Master/slave Mastery -- Protocols: Focusing the intent of your relationship
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Sorry it would not give me a link.