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I'mME
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About me
----DRAMA IS THE LACK OF INTEGRITY AND COURAGE.
My plan to go abroad, travel, teach English as foreign language is still sitting right in the middle of my brain.
Honesty is the only way for me. Sounds logical, but people have different ideas about what honesty looks and sounds like.
I have met a total of 5 people that respected this concept. People will say yes, I want you to be honest. Only to find out, the truth for them is if what I say aligns with what is in their head.
My ChooChoo is my best friend. Quite simply, I Love Her More Than Anything or Anyone On This Planet...
My family turned against me when crapdemic came around.
That's all there is to say on this subject.
I will be okay when I am in my own space.
I LOVE MUSIC & I LISTEN TO ALL KINDS, SOMETIMES REALLY LOUD.
I am somewhat reserved, although some here may not agree, but when it comes to sharing personal things, I'm not going to be a fountain.
(That would involve a dominant being vulnerable also)
With all the online interactions, people seem to feel that they can overstep. I wish you well, but you should stay away from me if you want to go with the fallacy routine (usually ad hominems).
*I will counter what someone says, isn't that a perk to being an adult, that I get to speak/write when I like not just when someone allows me to speak!!
But this does not equate to arguing.
I don't quit if I feel like I can change something, learn something, If there is a chance I will keep trying. This applies to all areas in my life.
* The above paragraph seemed a little creepy? So here is my addendum.
*I want to be able to say that I did my best...*
I don't cotton to fake anything including people.
A good way to get to know me is to be yourself. If you are a person who can't show emotion, laugh with me, or you don't like someone who tears up whenever she sees an animal in distress, I am not the person for you.
I want someone who will explore with me, but I'm not looking for a hook-up, a play date ( it would take a long time if that would ever happen).
I am looking for a relationship, one where we grow together, but I need someone who is patient. I'm not looking for a saint. I ask questions which has been described as argumentative. People who think this way or think think this is brat behavior, I'm not going to compatible with you. This type of thinking is not what D/s is about.
Please be 50 or older, at the very least no one under 40. I hesitate to assign a number because no two people are alike. I do not want to limit myself around an age, but a little common sense, so in the twenties and thirties, would most likely not be a compatible situation.
I'm not a dog so don't tell me you are going to train me.
I'm not a fan of conditioning , nudge theory , nor hypnosis. I do things because I want to do them, I enjoy doing them. I CAN compromise but that involves negotiation.
* I want someone who wants to be around me, laugh, we teach each other.
You will have to like me,.
The cold and arrogant Dom is a persona, I am a human being.
I actually like activities that I can see my work. Why? I enjoy seeing the fruits of my labor.
I would rather mow the grass, pull weeds, dig in the dirt, unload some top soil for a special spot, then put some mulch in, maybe put some some sod out. (Sniggling)
Sniggling is a fun word.
My plan to go abroad, travel, teach English as foreign language is still sitting right in the middle of my brain.
Honesty is the only way for me. Sounds logical, but people have different ideas about what honesty looks and sounds like.
I have met a total of 5 people that respected this concept. People will say yes, I want you to be honest. Only to find out, the truth for them is if what I say aligns with what is in their head.
My ChooChoo is my best friend. Quite simply, I Love Her More Than Anything or Anyone On This Planet...
My family turned against me when crapdemic came around.
That's all there is to say on this subject.
I will be okay when I am in my own space.
I LOVE MUSIC & I LISTEN TO ALL KINDS, SOMETIMES REALLY LOUD.
I am somewhat reserved, although some here may not agree, but when it comes to sharing personal things, I'm not going to be a fountain.
(That would involve a dominant being vulnerable also)
With all the online interactions, people seem to feel that they can overstep. I wish you well, but you should stay away from me if you want to go with the fallacy routine (usually ad hominems).
*I will counter what someone says, isn't that a perk to being an adult, that I get to speak/write when I like not just when someone allows me to speak!!
But this does not equate to arguing.
I don't quit if I feel like I can change something, learn something, If there is a chance I will keep trying. This applies to all areas in my life.
* The above paragraph seemed a little creepy? So here is my addendum.
*I want to be able to say that I did my best...*
I don't cotton to fake anything including people.
A good way to get to know me is to be yourself. If you are a person who can't show emotion, laugh with me, or you don't like someone who tears up whenever she sees an animal in distress, I am not the person for you.
I want someone who will explore with me, but I'm not looking for a hook-up, a play date ( it would take a long time if that would ever happen).
I am looking for a relationship, one where we grow together, but I need someone who is patient. I'm not looking for a saint. I ask questions which has been described as argumentative. People who think this way or think think this is brat behavior, I'm not going to compatible with you. This type of thinking is not what D/s is about.
Please be 50 or older, at the very least no one under 40. I hesitate to assign a number because no two people are alike. I do not want to limit myself around an age, but a little common sense, so in the twenties and thirties, would most likely not be a compatible situation.
I'm not a dog so don't tell me you are going to train me.
I'm not a fan of conditioning , nudge theory , nor hypnosis. I do things because I want to do them, I enjoy doing them. I CAN compromise but that involves negotiation.
* I want someone who wants to be around me, laugh, we teach each other.
You will have to like me,.
The cold and arrogant Dom is a persona, I am a human being.
I actually like activities that I can see my work. Why? I enjoy seeing the fruits of my labor.
I would rather mow the grass, pull weeds, dig in the dirt, unload some top soil for a special spot, then put some mulch in, maybe put some some sod out. (Sniggling)
Sniggling is a fun word.
BDSM and me
I am at my best when I am doing for someone, helping them. This does not mean I want to serve you, or him, or that one over there. It's rare that I interact with a man that piques my sub soul.
If you can not have a conversation and answer questions about vanilla stiff, then I'm not interested in speaking about kink stuff.
I will never let my hair down, reveal, be vulnerable for someone who wants to shroud themselves in mystery.
Why would I? This type of trust is earned and people can say what they want, but unless a Dom is giving transparency, the same as they expect from their sub, in some little corner pocket of a subs mind, their is doubt, unless they have been conditioned to something else.
I don't want a married man. I do not want to be on someone's list of things to do.
The more submissive I feel, the more I will give, which requires me needing more from my Dom. It is the natural way. Sure there are relationships where it's all one sided and sub may seem content, pretty sure the Dom is and that is okay for their dynamic.
I desire a relationship where I grow and my Dom grows then and we can grow together, I discover new ways to bring him happiness and pleasure thereby he is (should) be inspired to keep on his toes and me in the dynamic.
Doms & subs
A sub is NOT part of a hive that is connect to one brain.
A Dom is NOT omnipotent.
A Dom can not make decisions about me if they do not know me. In order to know someone, you must talk to them, about all kinds of things, spend time with them, be transparent.
If you don't know what being transparent entails, ask me.
I am an individual and intelligent. If you do NOT respect women, or you think women are inferior to you, we are not compatible. If you don't have the capability to be friends with me before trying to dom me, we are not compatible.
I am not being hateful, this is what honesty looks like.
I understand that people are just people.
But the idea that everyone lies, has mental illness is untrue. This is a type of thinking that has occurred because of several factors which I will lay out if I feel so.ekne is genuine in asking about.
I do not screw people over, steal, rarely borrow money, these types of things are part of who I am. I don't have to think about them.
Sometimes I feel like shitting my profiles down because of the people that I have encountered.
Ones who think because I have put myself out as a sub, that gives them the right to come into my box, lie (commission is still a lie), play games at my expense.
Some get away with it for awhile because I give people the benefit of the doubt. That doesn't mean that I can not ask questions to anybody I choose to.
If and when I figure out that someone is playing a game, I will handle it the way I see fit at the time.
I'm not sure when everyone rolled TF over and accepted people crossing lines, must be in the water.
I have well water, mull that over.
I will say that I have no interest in moving to any cold areas.
If I can not swim from May till the end of September, (this is an example) then it's not a place I'm going to be happy. I could deal with it temporarily if I know that the situation will get better.
If you can not have a conversation and answer questions about vanilla stiff, then I'm not interested in speaking about kink stuff.
I will never let my hair down, reveal, be vulnerable for someone who wants to shroud themselves in mystery.
Why would I? This type of trust is earned and people can say what they want, but unless a Dom is giving transparency, the same as they expect from their sub, in some little corner pocket of a subs mind, their is doubt, unless they have been conditioned to something else.
I don't want a married man. I do not want to be on someone's list of things to do.
The more submissive I feel, the more I will give, which requires me needing more from my Dom. It is the natural way. Sure there are relationships where it's all one sided and sub may seem content, pretty sure the Dom is and that is okay for their dynamic.
I desire a relationship where I grow and my Dom grows then and we can grow together, I discover new ways to bring him happiness and pleasure thereby he is (should) be inspired to keep on his toes and me in the dynamic.
Doms & subs
A sub is NOT part of a hive that is connect to one brain.
A Dom is NOT omnipotent.
A Dom can not make decisions about me if they do not know me. In order to know someone, you must talk to them, about all kinds of things, spend time with them, be transparent.
If you don't know what being transparent entails, ask me.
I am an individual and intelligent. If you do NOT respect women, or you think women are inferior to you, we are not compatible. If you don't have the capability to be friends with me before trying to dom me, we are not compatible.
I am not being hateful, this is what honesty looks like.
I understand that people are just people.
But the idea that everyone lies, has mental illness is untrue. This is a type of thinking that has occurred because of several factors which I will lay out if I feel so.ekne is genuine in asking about.
I do not screw people over, steal, rarely borrow money, these types of things are part of who I am. I don't have to think about them.
Sometimes I feel like shitting my profiles down because of the people that I have encountered.
Ones who think because I have put myself out as a sub, that gives them the right to come into my box, lie (commission is still a lie), play games at my expense.
Some get away with it for awhile because I give people the benefit of the doubt. That doesn't mean that I can not ask questions to anybody I choose to.
If and when I figure out that someone is playing a game, I will handle it the way I see fit at the time.
I'm not sure when everyone rolled TF over and accepted people crossing lines, must be in the water.
I have well water, mull that over.
I will say that I have no interest in moving to any cold areas.
If I can not swim from May till the end of September, (this is an example) then it's not a place I'm going to be happy. I could deal with it temporarily if I know that the situation will get better.
Limits
My kink limits can be discussed with the one who will respect them.
I could list things here but to me if I have to list out honesty and things like that, then I really should shut my profiles down..
Human being with common sense is a must.
Some type of sense of humor.
I laugh at myself all day, that's how I look at things.
I'm an optimist, I don't like doom and gloom.
I could list things here but to me if I have to list out honesty and things like that, then I really should shut my profiles down..
Human being with common sense is a must.
Some type of sense of humor.
I laugh at myself all day, that's how I look at things.
I'm an optimist, I don't like doom and gloom.
What's new
I have forgiven, that is not to say I may not struggle, but for my peace of mind I have forgiven.
I'm still in and out on this.
*They recede more and more...
I'm still in and out on this.
*They recede more and more...
Update date
Aug 10, 2024
Member since
Apr 14, 2020
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