I had written on here that I planned to move to a little town in Spain. My plan is still to live in Spain but perhaps near De Palma which is on the Balearic Islands. In order to boost my income, I researched TEFL certification (Teaching English as Foreign Language) and will get one, however, I don't want to make a costly mistake. Before settling in Spain, I would like to travel and teach, depending on the country's rules. Maybe start in Cambodia
or Vietnam and how awesome would it be to go to Thailand for a few days.
Here is a an idea. Someone that would enjoy traveling abroad together. If I met someone whom was lucky enough to earn my submission, that is has become a very big if, we can discuss what the future holds. I am still a believer.
Descriptive words that have been used to describe me. Good and kind hearted, dirty, loyal, don't take any shit especially off from people that don't know me... Intelligent, stubborn, mean, Stern, talkative (but that is when I am nervous or uncomfortable and not in a growing kind of way, could mean I don't like you or trust you) .
I'm going to keep this as brief as possible. It it could stretch out into a novel. I love men, I support anybody if I think they are coming from a place of good. I got lax and let my guard down, fuck maybe I will always be doing that. I had previously written it's got to do with having a good heart but I have changed my mind. Everyone starts out the same with me, I give people the benefit of the doubt. Please don't mistake my kindness as weakness. If I smell something stinky, I will say so and then be done.
Honesty is what I respect. it's no that I do not want to chat, it's that I am working on being more prompt, as well as a few other things. (If someone keeps going after I have stated that I'm doing something, that tells me you are not paying attention, you are but do not care what I have said, or some variation of these concepts, you will be talking to empty air) . Telling me to do anything, ordering me to do something, requesting me to do something all fall in the same category of What ? I am not your sub, s-type or anything but a stranger just as you are a stranger to me. We are 2 people chatting because I responded to your message, or I sent you a message. We are two strangers chatting and that is it. That does not impress me it's not Dominant , it's domineering. Let me repeat this another way, if you approach me with the intent of trying to see how submissive I am, with some type of test, just give me an F and please keep moving along until you find someone who may be newer or desperate to have someone in their life. It could be they do not understand that they do not have to nor should they let a complete stranger direct anything in their life until they have demonstrated what kind of human being they are. A title is just a word, who someone is inside is what they ARE.
A good way to get to know me is to be yourself. If that is someone that keeps distance and coldness as part of your relationship, we will not be compatible. I realize that this was /is one way that people learns Dom should be, I disagree. If one can not control parts of themselves that are needed at different times in a this kind of relationship without being cold and distant then maybe a power exchange relationship should not be a focus.
During a scene, maybe could be an appropriate time for this behavior, then again under some role play maybe.
I just do not cotton to Doms that are cold, impersonal, distant, standoffish, treat me like a bug in petri dish that they are studying, whether it's one, a combination of, or all of them.
It's not for me, I know from experience that it isn't, and I would hate for someone to waste their time.
Please be 50 or older, at the very least no one under 40.
I'm not a dog so don't tell me you are going to train me.
I'm not a fan of conditioning , nudge theory , nor hypnosis. I do things because I want to do them, I enjoy doing them. I CAN compromise but that involves negotiation.
If you are looking for a house maid, please keep going. I do not mind cleaning and helping around a household, but I do not live to clean.
I can get biggest down in the details of something and anyone who has cleaned on a regular basis, this is a death trap. I do a good job at whatever I take on in life, but cleaning can take on a. Life of it's own when the person doing it has a tendency towards OCD habits.