Seeking a Dominant mentor for task ideas

bluuwolfe • Aug 29, 2018

@SubforHim
Household chores rarely show up on her task sheet, and it's because her house belongs to her. We discussed that if things change in that regard we would revisit that angle.
The rare instances it has made an appearance is when she requests it to keep her accountable and ensure something get completed she really has her sites on.
If it would be okay with you and your Dom, what are some of your favorite staple tasks asked of you? I'd appreciate the insight.

@Cap'n Rick / @AlexStorm
I will mention the journal. I value that she has a place that belongs to her. She already writes some herself, so maybe that's why I've discounted a sub-journal. I'll think about revisiting this. Thank you both!

@DomforHer
I havent checked much or the blogs here yet, I'm going to dive into them soon though. Thank you

SubforHim​(sub female) • Aug 30, 2018

I love your task sheet! It looks like you put a lot of thought in the things you look for, which any sub can appreciate.

Household chores are pretty frequent on my task list even though I have my own home as well. There are some chores that I slack on which he recognizes (or we have discussed) and makes sure to incorporate them. If you are long distance, a quick picture of an empty sink or a freshly folded stack of clothes is a good check-behind.

We also have our list of rules written in a shared app. Reviewing that list is a task I do once daily, sometimes more. For a punishment I sometimes have to do writings which are also posted in the app. Reviewing those have been on my task list as well. Easy and quick reminders throughout the day.

Feel free to PM us if you want to bounce ideas around! Good luck ?

Getting started

Bpgage • Aug 30, 2018

Hello everyone! Im happy to be part of this community
So I'm vanilla to bdsm but my lovely partner is very very immersed with the culture and well she has gotten me into it as well. So to the point im pretty much here to learn how I can be her Dom/Sir, along with how the dynamic of a Dom/Sub looks like? Same with other roles she wants me to enbrace as DDLG. She says she will teach me but I also am looking for a mentor who can show me the ropes ( pun intended) ! I know it means alot to her and I dont want to disapoint.
I highly appreciate anyone who is willing to teach.