Dialogue/script scene inspiration

Dialogue/script scene inspiration

IntoTheMinds​(dom male) • Mar 26, 2023

My girlfriend of 2 months is into BDSM and got me into it. She's a sub and wants to be owned/punished. I'm still learning. I'm enjoying the process and learning things about myself along the way. I realized I might be a dom and a sadist. My question is... I don't know exactly what to say or do during our sessions and I'm running out of ideas.

I have all the tools - collar, gag, restraints, silk ties, nipple clamps, etc etc etc. And my girlfriend loves when I use them - we have a safe word and everything. She likes to be punished.. and the usual stuff (hair pulling, spanking, choking, slapping etc)... I can do all that stuff... but there is a psychological component to this that I'm missing and that she craves. When I ask her how I can do better, she'll say generic things like "do things to show you have complete control over me," "make me feel like you own me," "make me agree with you," "tease me."

I like her a LOT and I want to be a good dom for her.

Anyways... I don't know what words to actually say or how to play the psychological dominant game. I'm introverted/shy.. so sounding confident and dominant and ordering someone around for my pleasure is not my strength. Any ideas are appreciated...

Vint​(masochist female) • Mar 27, 2023

Some body writing might be a good start. Tell her she’s your whore..then write it on her (no sharpies!) tell her she’s your slut, write on her forehead, call her mouth your fuck hole, write across her mouth with the O as her hole. Don’t let her see until you’re finished, stand her in front of a mirror and make her masturbate while reading each word. Something along those lines is fun.

IntoTheMinds​(dom male) • Mar 27, 2023

Wow. That's really hot and super helpful. Can definitely do those things.