violetta(sub female)
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10 months ago •
Jun 1, 2023
primerose wrote: And it doesn't cause any jealousy?
violetta wrote: I guess I do this like any other activity that doesn't involve my relationship. Just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you spend every second together. I like to be totally open about it and just ask my bf if he has something planed on that day or if it would be fine that I do something with my dom. I can't imagine how this works without open communication. My partner was jealous in the beginning, I mean there's a need of his girlfriend he can't fullfill and another man can, so he felt kind of helpless and powerless. Open communication became all the more important to him. He wanted to know everything I did, although I sometimes felt uncomfortable telling him (shame, guilt,..). As he began to see the positive chances in myself he accepted it every day a little bit more and now after one year of my journey, he is totally fine with it, and even had the contacts of my last dom and they texted each other sometimes. |
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