Scenes!

Scenes!

EpicParker​(sub female) • Jun 24, 2023

How do you prepare for a scene with your partner(s)? Do you have a routine that you follow? What are your necessities during a scene? Do you film them? Do you take breaks or go for hours? What is your aftercare like?

My dominants and I have a shelf that have our scene necessities that include medication, blood sugar supplies, safety shears, lubes, and water/snacks. We take breaks but we can go for hours. We don’t film because we feel like that is an intimate time for just us. Our aftercare is very inclusive for everyone. I give my dominants aftercare first unless I absolutely need it before them.

Let me know how you do it!

Little Vixie​(sub female){Mgh30} • Jun 24, 2023

Before him and I would meet up, my dom would plan what our weekend scene would look like. He'd tell me about all the things he was wanting to get into and would have me sit in that information. Every so often he'd ask if i had any questions or if there was anything that I was interested in at that time to maybe incorporate it or discuss it for the next time we met up.
Whether I was traveling to him or him to me, he prep his toys, grab any snacks that i'd like or that he wanted before I got their, drinks, and whatever else we could think of. He make sure I was in a good mindset and then we get into the scene. He has never recorded us, but he has gotten lots of great photos so that way I could post it in my BDSM night club community forum. During the scene, he give me but 9/10 times he would have me in some sort of bondage.
After we got finish with the scene, he'd break me out of the bondage gear, and we'd get into after care which majorily consists of cuddling. This helps us both. He'd grab me a drink since usually all of our scene are typically intense bondage or sadomasochism scenes