What do you think of people that do not read profiles?

autisticbarbie • Jun 24, 2023

I hear you, but at least blocking is a start so we can read and respond to real people. When I was first getting on here and trying to figure out how it works, I missed so many messages from good people I would have actually wanted to talk to, because these asshats were constantly messaging and I just got overwhelmed and gave up. I feel like that's a common situation for all of the women on here who try to put themselves out here and it's why many of us take off.

RiverWolf​(masochist female) • Jun 24, 2023

I totally agree it does help in most areas. Especially if you use mute with block. Works really well except for in comments is where it stops.

Louise777​(sub female){None} • Jun 25, 2023

I speak from my personal experience...@LOP I returned to this site recently...put minimal info on...and noticed that the people who took the time to message were genuinely asking questions to which they genuinely wanted answers...far less of the "other" messages. It was quite refreshing! So I went and updated my profile and ta da.. few people reD it...and we are back to the majority of "other" messages!
It's a catch 22...for me anyway

kaoh • Jun 28, 2023

TLDNR - they are much like people who do not read an entire forum post before responding.