Hypnofiles

Hypnofiles

Vhale​(sub female){Yes} • Jul 11, 2023

I've been seeing a lot about hypnofiles for the denial community but it also seems to have a basis in just trying to increase comfort in the submissive state. I've done a lot of research and my Dom and I recently agreed that we would both be comfortable with me starting to listen to them. I was wondering if anyone else has any experience and how you would suggest jumping in. I am also open to any warnings but I don't see any risks I'm not prepared for in my research and I'm all about RACK.

Miki​(masochist female) • Jul 24, 2023

Sorry you didn't get any responses to this. It's a valid question.

First, since you seem to be referring to audio hypnosis programs I can't help at all, but I can share what I know fo as general caveats about hypnosis.

For one thing one has to be wired for it for it even to work. There are many for which hypnosis simply doesn't take, probably those who think through it. Hypnosis works for those who can blank their mind and "buy into" what is being suggested wholesale.

But be assured, despite what they have shown on TV and movies, one can never be so hypnotized so as to do things they ordinarily would not do. To wit, no two-legged snake can hyponotize someone into going into a store and shoplifting things if they aren't the stealing type. (if they are, they need no hypnosis to apply the Five-Finger Discount)

But the endgame of that hypothetical is if their "accomplice" gets caught, the crook "pulling the strings" can slime away and leave their stooge holding the bag with no memory of who put them up to it.

This won't happen in reality.

There are any number of hypnotists out there turning a cheesy buck with "weight loss", "stop smoking", or even "stop drinking" seminars, and while it might work, one might find that those who this shit works for-- already have a mindset to make the changes needed to reach those goals. But the dude (usually) running the seminar rakes in the dough, pretty much for telling people to do that which they're already inclined to do. And when it comes to "or your money back"-- without ever looking into that crap I'm sure there's a laundry list of "outs" for the guy so what he pays back is minimal compared to net proceeds.

This is actually the same mechanism as those "motivational speakers" deployed by MLMs and similar pyramid-like sales schemes. Disclaimers like "Results depend on individual effort" and "results not typical". They take your money and shrug their shoulders when you don't get the results the speaker *seemed to* promise.

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But again, my knowledge of this is restricted to what I read.

You can do a Search on "Hypnofiles", though and see what the more experienced have to say.

I did just before posting this but came up with nothing particularly useful. Could be I did not dig deep enough, but it could be on account of hypnosis being somewhat of a nothingburger for most.

But everyone's different. If you and the Dom want to give it a whirl, it likely can't hurt and could possibly add a dimension to your dynamic.

Best of luck!!

M

tallslenderguy​(other male) • Jul 25, 2023

What Miki said, with a little added.

i have an interest in this as well (from a receiving end as a total bottom gay guy). To add to what Miki wrote, for me its power lies in surfacing and affirmation of something already inside of us. There's also can be a control element when you have a SO using it with you. For me, hypnofiles are a step above porn, though i think they are similar. Most porn is visual, whereas hypnofiles tend to rely on audio, though they often have some graphic attached, like flashing pics with subliminals thrown in, whereas porn relies on the visual often with lots of moaning dubbed in lol.

Maybe the effectiveness depends on the receiver being more of an 'auditory learner' vs visual or kinesthetic.

Bondsbondsman​(sub male) • Jul 25, 2023

If your dominant partner blindfolds you, whispers gentle and stern words in your ear, combining denials into instructions. Demands that you repeat his questions aloud. At the same time, being next to you, stroking and hugging. Record it all in audio format. Give you homework to listen to and repeat his personal hypnosis. Note. If in his presence these words and actions did not cause you a slight euphoria, the audio will not help.

SeventhHeavenGirl​(switch female) • Jul 28, 2023

As someone who has experienced hypnosis a few times, all I can say is go into it with an open mind. Don't expect anything to happen because that just puts pressure on it to happen. It's better "live" so if your Dom can just talk to you over call in a calm voice while you are in a calm state of mind, it could work. It's all about trust and relaxing though.
For mine, twice it worked, once it didn't and I believe it didn't because I no longer trusted the person doing it.
I wish you luck